Is it normal that i can't fit in my girlfriend?

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My girlfriend and I have tried to have sex a handful of times, but it always ends awkwardly when I can't get inside of her and then lose my erection shortly after. It's partly my fault because I can't get fully hard with a condom on. But she's also really tight and I can barely fit one finger inside. I'm really embarrassed about this and I'm sure she is too.

This is not a brag post because I already know that I'm average sized.

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Based on 66 votes (39 yes)
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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    Why not stretch her out a bit first by fingering her...start with one then do two fingers...maybe even go up to three...then try to fit yourself in

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    • iEatZombies_
      9 years ago

      This- and use lube.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    quit hanging out with junior high girls

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  • blackbarbie
    9 years ago

    Perhaps she isn't aroused enough. Focus more on foreplay and don't worry about putting the condom on until you're actually ready to enter her. If you can't get your tongue in her, then she should see a doctor, but if that isn't the case she's probably just not sufficiently aroused and relaxed.

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  • TimmyTheTurtle
    9 years ago

    say it with me.... 1st world problems.

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    • iEatZombies_
      9 years ago

      Nah, I'm sure starving, broke people consider this a problem when it arises.

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      • TimmyTheTurtle
        9 years ago

        i think they would just be grateful they don't have ebola or are being chased by a tiger..

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        • iEatZombies_
          9 years ago

          You'd be surprised then, how important the simple pleasures in life are to someone who has nothing. Just because they're in bad positions doesn't mean they should be thankful for the crumbs on our first world feet.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Its true that if a woman is nervous or isn't that aroused then it can be hard to get in.
    Make sure she is relaxed and do lots of foreplay that she likes. Also lube, buy cases of it the warming kind is the best.
    If that doesn't work, I dunno.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    She may need a medical procedure called a hymenotomy.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I've known two girls that were extremely tight. One nobody could enter, not even with a finger. The other was so tight that every guy she had sex with ejaculated prematurely. Felt amazing for us, but the poor girl wasn't having all that much fun.
    I'd say you need to get her to gynecologist and have a professional see what can be done.

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  • nine11
    9 years ago

    Problem with u is that u think dat your dk is very big. Just 4get dat and push it in as soon as it is hard , don't wory nothin wil hapen 2 her cnt, just do it and enjy life

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  • OldChick
    9 years ago

    She's nervous. It's designed to expel a child. Take your time.

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  • graceful_elven_goddess
    9 years ago

    Stick it in her ass instead.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    A good set of vaginal dilators can help a lot of conditions.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yk7B3nqB1Qw

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Also make sure you are in the standard missionary position. It's much more difficult to enter the first time from other positions because of how her hips and your dick is Angled.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    My gf had this problem when we were in highschool. Is she a virgin? Or close to it? You need to play with her before u just jam it in, fore play, get her wet and the muscles will start to relax. And she might just be tensing up because she's nervous.idk what to tell u about the condom problem though I hate condoms. They take almost ALL the feeling away. I'd suggest either fingering her for a while a few times a day just to get her vagina used to being penetrated and having something inside it.

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  • meow:3
    9 years ago

    lube? don't rush! Don't think to logically about it either, just have fun and lead up to it.

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  • redfastlad
    9 years ago

    buy a vibrator use that first

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    • golden_showers
      9 years ago

      u think somebody that young would be receptive to that??? what a dumb piece of advice.

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  • MasterMc124
    9 years ago

    Well I tried.
    It's all up to the other people

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  • MasterMc124
    9 years ago

    Have you ever tried those Chinese Balls?
    People say they help relax the muscles and it makes the women adapted to that size.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Something tells me that she's not going to want anything like that going in there.

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