Is it normal that i can't find my girlfriend ?

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Hi ! I'm a 22-year-old man, I live in Switzerland (I'm Swiss) and I haven't found my girlfriend yet. I often go out with friends and I can easily talk to new people (I'm not shy but very calm anyway) but I find weird not having met my love yet ! A lot of people that know me find me very adorable, mature and physically beautiful ! I have to study because I'm in university so I sometimes don't have time to think about it and in my free time I also like to stay chill at home ! When I have time, I really don't know where and how to get a girlfriend ! Some of my friends's girlfriends are too "bad girls" for me but I still love simple personality women. I'm very respectful and I hate sexism !!!

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  • 309uf2o38yf
    5 years ago

    I misunderstood the title and thought you lost her somewhere 😂

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    • leggs91200
      5 years ago

      Yeah it made me think of that video on The Onion where it says missing woman likely raped.
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2X0H0ni5MQ

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  • barefoot_on_the_sand
    5 years ago

    You should go out more and flirt with girls.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Yes, I know !
      But it's not so easy, you know ?

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      • barefoot_on_the_sand
        5 years ago

        Yeah, I've been there.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    It took me 32 years to find mine. After a long string of girlfriends I had nothing in common with I finally changed the type of woman I was looking for and it's been all uphill since then. Happily married for 8 years now. She's out there man, just don't give up looking.

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    I think it's adorable that you say "I haven't found my girlfriend yet". Like, you know she exists but you just don't know where she is! Keep searching! :)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thank you so much !!! It made me smile ! :)
      You're a good person ! ;)

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      • LornaMae
        5 years ago

        Chances are that she's also looking for you. :)

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        • Tato
          5 years ago

          Always brings a tear to my eye to see a blossoming, virtual love.
          Good luck to the both of you.

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          • LornaMae
            5 years ago

            Hey! Wasn't it you who commented on a friendship being formed between me and another anonymous OP? Hahahaha!

            Why do you get so emotional about it? :S

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  • dc2332
    5 years ago

    My advice for you is to go to places in which you think you will find your ideal woman. For example, if you like to read, try the library. If you like Jazz, try a music festival. Usually, these areas are great places to meet people. Even try talking to people at your own University! You'de be surprised how many people will stop to talk to you.
    Do not worry. Sometimes as we get older we begin to panic, but love can happen anytime and will happen whenever it pleases- even if you are not expecting it.
    Lastly, if you feel you don't have time for a relationship, I wouldn't recommend it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thank you so much !

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  • Susancream
    5 years ago

    the reason i don't have a girlfriend is because am afraid of rejection, i see beautiful girls all the time and in my head i go "hey you should talk to her" but then i run a mental simulation of me doing that and getting rejected and my day being ruined then i just don't do it, i make alot of excuses like you're doing right now excuses that i don't think i'll be rid of anytime soon but trust me when i say this if you do get a girl the time to hangout go on dates and do relationship stuff will become available to you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Oh my God !!! I think you're right ! :)
      If you know that, so try to change it for you too, my friend ! ;)

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  • frederickandersen
    5 years ago

    You sound really nice, so I don't know why you haven't found a girlfriend.
    I think you should go out there and try to meet new people! I met my girlfriend at a party, for example, and she's amazing.
    Good luck! :)

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  • Freakhead
    5 years ago

    It's completely fine:) one day you'll find a perfect one at the right time just have patience and don't and don't feel discouraged when you see people around you having a successful love life

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  • TS
    5 years ago

    "I'm very respectful and I hate sexism !!!"

    I think I've found your problem

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      That's to say …

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      • TS
        5 years ago

        ...that if you lighten up a bit women shall likely find you more attractive.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Yeah probably !
          But you know I've a personality and I don't want to change !

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