Is it normal that i can't do anything bout this

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So My bf and I have been dating for a lil overr 5 months ... He never cheated on me and always said he loved me . One day I accidentally saw a message from his friend and I saw he put hearts and then I got curious and read a lil more ... I didn't mean to snoop but I wanted to know of he was cheating cuz I trusted him 100% ..... Anyway I read and he wrote a lot of hearts to her and they like mess around for example call eachother a cute name like once in 3 months ...... Anyway I wanted to know if I should be worried or not btw she lives across the world and he claims that I she live here he wouldn't even talk to her and the only reason he's that " friendly " is cuz she helped him with his ex and she lives across the world . I kind of believe him cuz he doesn't even talk to girls who love near by and after I saw the messages he promised me hed never talk to even one other girl ..... So should I be worried or am I overreacting ?

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  • Mmmpfh
    11 years ago

    Once a female penpal I had been talking to started sending x's at the end of messages to me. I thought nothing of it (though a little investigation later turned up that this behaviour was only in messages to me, no one else). My a- the-time girlfriend did not appreciate this. I stopped talking to the penpal. Problem solved.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Wait, you looked through his messages because you trust him 100%? I don't think I understand your logic.

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  • iran
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't consider it a problem. Then again there's always a chance(there goes your 100%). If you notice him leaving you quite often or you don't see him as much then I would ask him about it. If need be you can show him where it really hurts, right between those legs, that should do the trick.

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  • jasontnr
    11 years ago

    overreacting. ther probly just good friends. like you girls gigle and call each other cute names all the time, dont see us guys thinking your dateing each other.

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  • paigemaster1990
    11 years ago

    Even if you trust him 100% there is always that chance of temptation. Plus just because he says she lives across the world does not prove it. I would ask him to stop talking to her. I once dated a guy for 5 years he had a "friend" that I always told him I felt uncomfortable when he talked to her. He reassured me she was just a friend and he would never even think of doing anything with her. At the end of the relationship he ended up cheating on me with her. I trusted him but since than I find it hard to trust any guy

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  • Sunshinelolliepops
    11 years ago

    STOP THIS NOW!!! It doesn't matter how far away she is, this is inappropriate....and it could lead to more...speaking from experience!!!!

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  • FussyCarrot
    11 years ago

    Make sure he stops talking to her. No use ruining your relationship over a bish that lives around the world. But tell him stop flirting with her and make it clear that it upsets you.

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  • mikafor
    11 years ago

    If she's across the world don't worry too much. Still try to keep tabs though, in case he decides to send some private pictures.

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