Is it normal that i can't decide if i want to be with my boyfriend?

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I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 4 months, and I don't think I want to anymore. I've tried explaining this to him several times, but feel terrible for him every time and can never make myself just break up. Is it worse to just breakup without being totally sure if its what I want or is it worse to keep bringing up to him that I'm not happy?

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Based on 38 votes (28 yes)
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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Even if you don't go on an official break, you should see him less often and see if you miss him on those nights. If not, at least you've drifted away gently before you break up with him.

    Good luck to you - but if you're not happy, don't waste your time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Break up, if you want to feel happier and in love again or try to make your relation better!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I agree with joy bird if u don't miss him u probably just need something exciting in ur relationship

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    In all honesty if you can't even decide if you want him or not... I'd say let him go.

    If you can't even decide... you're just jerking him around playing games.

    He DESERVES a girl who actually *wants* him. No one needs to be tied to someone who can't even decide ...

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    • littlelulu1999
      12 years ago

      I agree with Angel...if you don't know what you want then do him the favor of breaking up with him for good and letting him get on with his life to find somebody else that wants him...

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    It might be a good idea for you two to go on a break while you figure out what want. If you're not happy with the way things are, there's no point keeping it that way. It's not like you're doing him a favour, either. He deserves your honesty, even if it hurts. Don't stay with him out of pity. Sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind. Good luck!

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