Is it normal that i can't decide if i'm pretty or not?

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Sometimes when I look in the mirror I feel really self-confident. I find things about my appearance that I find attractive and I feel like I'm at least of average appearance. Other times, I feel completely ugly, and like there is nothing attractive or likable about me. On top of that, I sometimes go back and forth between these extremes in the space of a few minutes. Is it normal that I can't decide whether or not I am attractive?

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Based on 38 votes (32 yes)
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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    It doesn't matter that much, you know.

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  • Dreamsao
    8 years ago

    It's normal to me. I feel the same way. I think it's the angle you view yourself from

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    Post a picture. We will tell you what we think.

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  • NyanStrike
    8 years ago

    Let me tell you the answer to your am i pretty or not question - you are pretty! you are extremely pretty! no matter what or how you look like, just know you are beautiful.

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  • modernism
    8 years ago

    Same, expect for me, it's usually the difference of days/weeks. I'll feel like Emma Watson one week, and then Howard Stern the next. My indecision doesn't help either.

    But I think it's just insecurities. Even though looks aren't such a huge deal, we tend to make it so.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    I do this too, so I voted normal.
    XD

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  • Abartho750TC
    8 years ago

    Same prob here

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I'm the same. Regardless of how many compliments I get and how many people show "interest" in me, I'll look in the mirror and think I look amazing and then soon after think I look terrible.

    I think we both need to work on our insecurities. ^_^

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  • dahztoyevskeet
    8 years ago

    I have the same issue. Sometimes, I refuse to look at myself in certain mirrors or through certain types of camera lenses, because I know that I'll look uglier in them than in another reflective surface. I also have a thing for entering into public restrooms, just so I can see how I look in their mirrors.

    Of course, reading your question again, I'm taking away a different meaning. Are you changing the lighting/looking at different mirrors/surfaces, or is this the same mirror, with the same lighting/time of day? It could be some sort of psychiatric problem, but I don't have the authority or info necessary for a diagnosis. I noticed that I had this problem a lot worse when I was a teenager.

    Do you think that maybe the clothes you're wearing could be influencing this?

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