Is it normal that i can't be in a relationship?

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Things will be going great. I'll adore the person, (boy or girl since I'm bi) and I honestly crave one of those cute long relationships. BUT as soon as things become official, I start to get bored, lose interest, and begin to just dislike the person. Seriously as soon as it becomes official. My happiness just won't even last a week.

They could treat me like Jesus and I'll still just become annoyed with them.

Is this normal?

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Based on 106 votes (57 yes)
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  • M.U.
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you only like the challenge or something. Perhaps you should play dating sims instead of dating real people.

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  • iEatZombies_
    12 years ago

    I imagine you're young. Don't grow up too fast. Enjoy yourself. If you have to sleep with someone, just try not to sleep with more than one person per year or two. You will regret it when you do care for someone.

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    • kit291
      12 years ago

      yeah thats so true. also when you are with someone they might be disgusted by how many people you've been with.

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      • iEatZombies_
        12 years ago

        Absolutely. People look at you funny when they think the number's too high for their own taste.

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        • kit291
          12 years ago

          yup i still can't look at one of my friends. she's only 17 and has slept with more than 50 people. it makes me feel sick.

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          • iEatZombies_
            12 years ago

            Oh, wow. That's gonna hurt her later in life.

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            • kit291
              12 years ago

              ea but she just thinks i'm crazy and guys love knowing that she's easy. i'm just waiting for her to get pregnant then she might re thing her life choices.

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  • Blakeandersonshair
    12 years ago

    Ha. That was me in, what? Seventh grade or something. Im 21 now, and no longer have that problem. I think the first post is right, you havent found the right person.

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  • Mellox
    12 years ago

    You haven't found the right person, simple as that. This was an exact description of me 2 years ago. When I met my current partner, I just knew it would be serious. Just be patient and enjoy single life :)

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    • Its_Called_Love
      12 years ago

      Same for me, I use to make a game out of it. I loved the challenge, because I was good at getting what I wanted. But as soon as I got it, I was bored. What I did was wait a few years till I matured a bit more and bam long term relationship.

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  • Paradiddle
    11 years ago

    I'd say its normal. I've had that feeling myself but not instantly, more like after a few months when things are already starting to decline with little hope for improvement. I've been on the receiving end very soon after getting together though and let me tell you, it really isn't fun to play with someone's emotions like that. I know it isn't intentional as one's feelings could seem to be very permanent at the start and no one makes a U-turn on purpose, it just isn't pleasant to the receiver.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    I am the same way. They drive me insane after awhile.

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  • PeaceandLove
    12 years ago

    I'm the same, I watch movies like Say Anything or Clueless and all I want is a relationship like that, when I get one, I basically am like "okay go away, I don't want to be with you", even though I was completely into the person! I don't get it.

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