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The only way i can have an orgasm is by stimulating my clitoris. I have tried fingering, toys, men... But nothing works! All I can do it rub my clit or dry hump things! Is it normal?
I think that more than 50% of women need their clitoris stimulated in order to have an orgasm. I have read this several times in different sources. I have never had an orgasm during intercourse...have never been able to find the G spot. But I almost always orgasm when my clit is rubbed. Totally normal!
One of my former girlfriends showed me exactly how to caress her clitoris with my right index finger. She and I didn't have sexual intercourse up to that point so I always managed to drive her totally out of her mind with ecstasy by bringing her to orgasm with my index finger in rapid motion back and forth, sideways, and up and down on her clitoris while she continued stroking my penis. After she orgasmed, her clitoris became too sensitive to touch. I always became frustrated every time she pulled my hand away from her clitoris after she orgasmed because I wanted to continue caressing her clitoris (even though she had already orgasmed) but my strength was no match for hers. She was short, fat and strong while I was tall, skinny and weak. I would use both of my arms to try to get my index finger back onto her clitoris but she was far stronger than I was so I simply had to wait until she became aroused again!!!
Totally normal, and same. Most of my friends have only orgasmed a few times in their whole life through g spot stimulation, and I never have yet, it does bug me though