Is it normal that i can not give my husband?

I have tried it twice but every time I have had to run to the bathroom due to nausea. He sometimes gets mad that I can’t and when he asks I tell him that I’m going to get nauseas but he doesn’t care. Does anyone else have this problem ?

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    He sounds like the abusive type for getting mad and not caring.

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    • CatEarLover

      He’s not abusive, if he was that upset that I didn’t then I think he would’ve left me when we were dating.

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      • JellyBeanBandit

        Still, he sounds shady to me for pressuring you.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    I cannot give my husband.

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  • You're the same person who can barely brush your tongue due to a super gag reflex? Have you explained your problem to him?

    If so, then he's being a bitch.

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    • CatEarLover

      Yes I have explained it to him and he’s actually been in the same room just so I could prove it to him.

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      • 309uf2o38yf

        Throw up on him then. He'll get the idea after a few times being covered in vomit.

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      • Maybe you could calmly explain again that unless you can find a way to treat your nausea and excessive gagging issues, blowjobs simply can't happen.

        If he insists on "equality" and then refuses go down on you because of something that you can't help, then that's that.

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        • nikkiclaire

          Omg b.s. this girl needs a dick in her mouth. Come on. My idiot brother said he couldn't swallow aspirin and put on a huge show, til he found Percocet All of a sudden no more restrictive. It's all In her head.

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          • Even if the gagging does stem from a mental issue, it still needs to be treated before any blowjobs can be performed.

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            • nikkiclaire

              True

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          • curious-bunny

            I can support this, ibuprofen pills are small I can barely swallow. My hormones are big n small I can swallow without water.

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  • Hornyandhung47

    Here's the deal if he truly loved you he wouldn't get mad cause you cannot suck him. I have a girlfriend that can't suck me for the same reason as you. So here's the question you need to ask yourself,should I continue to put up with him getting upset over what I am unable to do,or should I kick him to the curb and find someone who will love me for me and accept me even when it comes to what I cannot do? I think deep inside you know the answer.

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  • Hornyandhung47

    If he can't accept that your bad gag reflex hinders you sucking him,then I'd say he doesn't truly love you. I have a long cock,and my girlfriend can't get it to go down her throat,so she does best she can. I love her whether she can blow me or not. If he gets mad cause you can't,kick him to the curb and find the one who will love you irregardless if you can suck him or not. True love does not get upset easily,it accepts the person for who and how they are

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  • IrishPotato

    If you physically can't, you can't. He should love you regardless.

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  • trexagireve

    I had a girlfriend that couldn't do that and my mouth was her masturbation and squirting point but I loved her either way!!

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  • leggs91200

    Cock suckery is pretty horrific really. Cannot blame the lady for not wanting to do that.
    Snatch lickery isn't so bad, I like doing THAT. Unless it was my ex who smelled like piss. BLEH

    Now if the husband wants "equality" then he could join the Black Lives Matter movement.

    Equality. Holy crap. Sounds like we are talking politics. Cock suckery and politics do not really mix. Unless we are talking Monica Lewinsky.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You cannot give him what?

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    • CatEarLover

      It edited it out, I can’t give him head.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Does he go down on you?

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        • niceonetoo

          I'm sure he does don't all men, nowadays?

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          • RoseIsabella

            They should, if they are expect to get some, then they better expect to give some.

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            • niceonetoo

              Many men give but don't receive. .....

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        • CatEarLover

          Yes but hell sometimes not and I know it’s because he wants us to be “equal”. As if he’s like If you don’t go down on me then I won’t go down on you

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          • RoseIsabella

            Well, I can totally understand that. I never do anything to anyone who isn't willing to return the favor.

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            • niceonetoo

              Giving oral sec should not be looked on as a favor but a as a pleasure.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Get over it and go down. For Christ sake. It amazes me the tricks the brain can do. Suck his dick.

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  • Lestat565

    Do you have him go down on you? Cause if so you are a selfish bitch. It isn’t that hard to suck a dick get over it before he finds someone who will do what he needs

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    • CatEarLover

      Ouch

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  • Caitlynnlifee21

    get throat numbing spray mama

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    • TranscendingTerra

      I’ve actually heard that this works! She should try it!

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  • Biman458

    I dated a girl once who hated oral totally both giving and receiving. She said the thought of it was disgusting to her. We did ultimately break up but not do to that, she went back to her ex.

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  • niceonetoo

    Lol

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  • randypete

    That is why men go with other men

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  • brutus

    Put something sweet or minty on his member.

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  • debil

    rtell him to wash him self

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