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I'm almost 21 and I'm much more attracted to girls my age and even women who are five - ten years older, but I sometimes find girls who are even as young as thirteen or fourteen years old sexually attractive. I would never want to do anything remotely illegal, but is this attraction normal?
I know that this is going to sound extremely creepy but I understand where you're coming from. There are a lot of underage women who can pull off looking like they're 18. I know somebody reading this will think "Yuck what is wrong with you!" Well to that person I say this, have you noticed what girls are wearing nowadays? We actually had a discussion in my class about this, how people sexualize young girls. And to be fair, they sort of do it to themselves. I'm not demonizing their attire, but if you're wearing short shorts and a push up bra all in an effort to look mature, well congratulations you look like an adult. It's not that you would actually do anything with these people, but they do get a rise out of you. Just like how any girl putting her tits out on display would get a rise out of anybody. But again that's not to say that you would actually do anything with these people and nor that you should criticize them for how they choose to dress. It's a simple case of letting each person be; you the watcher, and she the girl.
Just throwing this out there, I thought Ellie from the Last of Us was very, very attractive. She was beautiful, but she was also 14 so I had to like submerge that infatuation until it drowned in the sea of logic that I used to hold it down.
You can be "attracted" to anyone you please, but it's how you act on that attraction that will determine the number of years you spend in prison, or not.
If you go to Bulgaria for instance, the age of consent is 14 and no ifs and buts. It's 15 in France. Backward countries, like Malta or the USA enjoy criminalising their young people.
I'm the same way. I'm 30 and find myself checkin out girls in highschool but would never mess with. They have nice little bodies and dress sexy. I guess sometimes I don't feel my age but I admire all ages of women.
Remember that they are not projecting sexuality to express their inner feelings, they are doing it to compete with their peers. They're still silly giggly kids.
so many men are like this, but NEVER admit it. In Asia when you see a little beauty, how can you not be turned on ? You're teaching a class of kids with some cute young girls. May times they're wearing short which are too big for them, and you can easily see thier panties underneath. or they're wearinga skirt and their sitting down,knees apart - you can see everything. if you ge chance to stay with a local faily, you can see their bare cunnies right through thier nightshirts, or catch a glimpse of their cunny lips when their in thier pants and t-shirts. It's lovely.
My ex was 32 and attracted to 13-14 year olds. At your age it may be still 'ok' (even though it already sounds creepy IMO) but after 24 you should really look for help. And DON'T EVER TELL THE WOMAN YOU'RE DATING. It will mess up her self-worth.
Creeper. Look for the OP on To Catch a predator with Chris Hanson in the near future
It's completely normal if you think about how some of the girls today look like or how they dress.
Yes it's normal just remember however Not to act on it or you may go to jail! You can fantasize about it all you want alone
yes its normal, they are females. It is the law that has limits.
I think they are beautiful once they are near or in teens. Some mature a bit earlier but they are still kids.
I find it normal to find girls attractive the moment they develop slight bats and a curve to their good and butt. I admire them when they look good but that's it here in the u.s.
If a girl looks healthy, has big tits, a shapely bum, and a pretty face, she will be sexually attractive to people who are attracted to girls, even if she hit puberty early and is only 14 years old.
It is normal to be attracted to girls that look like they will make lots of babies.
It isn't good to have sex with young people though of course for many reasons, regardless of how developed they are physically.
don't spend energy wanting them bcuz you'll most likely end up creating your reality of crossing a line.
What I see could be two different looks on why you find them attractive: 1) They look more mature when they dress that certain way, or 2) you like the young, innocent-type look.
I agree that girls that dress to look more mature than their age play the part.
If you find them attractive, there's not much you can do. Is it normal? To me it depends on whether you're for option 1 or 2.