Is it normal that i can’t respond to a girl’s mind games?

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I’m 25 and never had a girlfriend. A MAJOR reasons is because, apparently, I’m hard to talk to because if I’m talking to a girl I’m interested in and I like her eyes or hair, she would say “Do you say that to every girl?” I would honestly say “No, just you”, because it’s my gut response due to having Asperger’s.

Should I change myself or just keep trying? Remember, I have Asperger’s.

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    How is that a mind game? You do realise that once you've said "Just you" you can't honestly say it again to another girl?

    "No, only when it's true" would be a better response and presumably honest

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      Good response!

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    Stop blaming aspergers I have it and i've never in my life had any issue getting dates. Also if someone responds that way she is being a bitch. If a man gives me a compliment my first response is not "do you say that to every girl?", I thank for the compliment. However you obviously do say that to other women so like someone else already stated "only when its true" would be a better response. No one has ever only given a compliment to one person in their entire lives. They just want to believe they are special.

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    • CureforAspergers
      4 years ago

      What if I forget to say “only if it’s true”? It’s not in my nature to tell lies as I’m a very direct person.

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      • Sleepykitten
        4 years ago

        If you don't tell lies then how is saying "only if it's true" dishonest? The statement "only if it's true" is still true if you've only said it once. I thought people with aspergers were supposed to be more logical than this. If C is a compliment and T is the truth value of the compliment, "C implies T for all instances of C" is not invalidated by there being only one instance of C. 😛

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      • candylady
        4 years ago

        So you’ve only told one girl that you liked her hair or eyes in your entire life?

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        • CureforAspergers
          4 years ago

          Probably

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  • jethro
    4 years ago

    What does aspergers have to do with it? JFK had aspergers and he had tons of dates (just ask Marilyn Monroe, if you ever meet her). Being filthy rich also helps a lot too.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
      4 years ago

      i thought it was addisons

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      • Boojum
        4 years ago

        After JFK's death, it was indeed disclosed that he'd been diagnosed as having Addisons Disease (a malfunction of the adrenal glands) when he was 30, about 15 years before his assassination. If it hadn't been for the development of a couple of drugs a few years after the diagnosis, he wouldn't have lived long.

        He also had chronic back pain and was diagnosed as having hypothyroidism and apparently he was also dyslexic.

        All in all, a guy with a lot of health issues, but I've never heard it suggested he had Asperger's or was on the spectrum.

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        • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
          4 years ago

          like him or not i dont think anyone would characterize him as socially awkward

          i wouldnt be surprised if nixon had aspergers though

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      • jethro
        4 years ago

        By golly, you are right it was addison's not aspergers. But either way, being filthy rich always helps with getting dates.

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  • TerriAngel
    4 years ago

    Since you have use the ass burgers crutch.
    You should remain single, never date, and for god sake dont reproduce.

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    • CureforAspergers
      4 years ago

      What’s so bad about me wanting to get married and have kids? Asperger’s is not as bad an excuse compared to criminal blacks who use their race as an excuse to get welfare and affirmative action.

      You tell them, “get a job and stop mooching off the streets”
      They said, “Nah, man. My ancestors were slaves and y’all beez racist”.

      I’ve been in Houston where 20% of the city is black, but they make up 95% of all “homeless” panhandlers. What losers!

      Ultimate responsibility deflection right there. I’m not a racist, some of my best friends are black, they all trust me.

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      • Sleepykitten
        4 years ago

        I suspect your out of control racism may also be a contributing factor to you never having a girlfriend. That stuff is deeply unattractive except to other racists.

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        • CureforAspergers
          4 years ago

          I’m not racist for pointing out facts. I listen to Candace Owens (a black Trump supporter) and she says the same things I’m saying. I choose friends based on political similarities, not race.

          The Democrats are the racists because they founded the KKK, slavery, Jim Crow and started most race riots in the U.S. The GOP was founded to free the slaves.

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          • Sleepykitten
            4 years ago

            You haven't pointed put any facts, just a bunch of low effort nonsense. Stop watching Fox News, it rots your brain.

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  • Phoebe2005
    4 years ago

    Calm down lol we don’t actually care what the conversation is even about lol but if you’re nice and have cute eyes then yeh all I know is I’d want is you to do the talking and I’d probably stay interested (:

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  • Iszzy123
    4 years ago

    Sounds like you need money to me

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  • raisinbran
    4 years ago

    When she asks if you say that to every girl, tell her to fuck off for being rude.

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    I'm not sure your example was a mind game.

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