Is it normal that i came while grinding?

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It's actually happened on three separate occasions, with three different girls. The first time I was in her bedroom, and she got on top of me, and I slid my jeans down a little but I kept my boxers on with my dick against my belly. And so she was grinding on me while I was feeling her up and making out with her, and I felt myself about to come (it's not like I just came out of nowhere, it was a legitimate orgasm, it just came fast) so I just let it happen. I told her, she let me borrow a pair of her boxers, and it was embarrassing, but it didn't faze me really.
The second time, I was just making out with a girl, standing up. It was really intense, and I was rubbing against her and grabbing her ass through under her shorts, and again, I let it happen and I went to the bathroom to clean up afterwards. I didn't tell her. Too embarrassed.
This most recent time, it was like 4 in the morning, and we were making out, and basically the same thing happened from the first time, except this time I didn't tell her.
I wouldn't be worried if this was a one time thing, but I don't think I should be coming in my pants more than once.

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  • UnrecognizableMan
    11 years ago

    Just enjoy it, and tell the girl you came cuz she'll like to know you enjoyed it too. And if your with a girl and you don't want it to happen just tell her your getting far too excited and need to cool off a bit.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    you might also want to consider what kind of detergent you use - try switching to a gentler brand. and check your laundry before you dry it to make sure the detergent is completely gone. especially when you wash your shorts

    why? Because the detergent itself, may be lingering in your clothes and irritating your flesh a little bit. it may not be much - but enough to make you more sensitive, and therefore it could be priming you to climax faster.

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    Depends, really.
    If you can get it up fast again, thats no problem. I've known guys that could only cum once and needed several hours to be ready again, but lasted like an hour until they came.
    I've also known guys that couldn't stop themselves from coming during foreplay, but actually stayed hard and basically could come 3 times in about an hour without a big break between.

    If its embarrasing for you, do take the advice and try to jerk off beforehand. You may also try focusing the foreplay more on your partners. As in, not grind yourself as much, but focus on her joy to actually get to the "good" part. Now, getting to have sex and ejaculating within a few seconds after entering her may be embarassing as well, but trust me, after something like that happened once or twice, you can grind against her a lot longer without any accidents-
    And i can assure you it's a lot less frustrating to find an unexperienced guy came right after putting it in, than to find he came when i was just getting close myself(and that happens a lot, once you start moans and audible breathing). With the first one, i sympathize, with the latter, i feel cheated out of my orgasm.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago

      good point - working one out ahead of time can help take the edge off so the OP doesn't come too soon.

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  • barbiegal
    11 years ago

    Try jacking off before u start grinding like go to the bathroom then u won't cum as fast..

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      11 years ago

      This.

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  • bigtoy
    11 years ago

    This happened to me when I was about 12. How old are you ffs?

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  • NerdyChickFTW
    11 years ago

    I think you just got too..excited. Next time, if you are really that worried about it, try not to get too intimate about just kissing. It will help with holding back your orgasm, and if you make it to foreplay, you won't have to be embarrassed if you come while she is jerking you off or giving you head.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    I guess you know how Hitler felt now...

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