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im a married women since 10 months i don't love my husband and i have a boy friend but he don't know that i am married i love my boy friend so much and i hate my husband
Boy are you in deep shit.
You've blown your chances for alimony, so find a job, get a place and get out. Living with someone you hate is not healthy.
Your husband will find out one day, anyway, so why not bring it out in the open and get a divorce before things get too ugly?
Just out of curiosity, why did you marry your husband?
Why would you even get married in the first place then? If this is not a troll post then I hope this all blows up in your face in the near future and you lose both your boyfriend and your husband. You need to learn the harsh lessons of life. The worst kind of people are the ones who two time and back stab others for their own selfish reasons.
Ask him for a divorce, but bring along a witness who knows of the situation, just in case he freaks out. You didn't specify as to why you hate him so, I'm just trying to cover it in case that is a possibility.
Humans shouldn't exist, we are a perversion of evolution. Our cultures teach that we're all somebody important or "special" when in fact we are not. Nobody is special.
If you hate him why haven't you got a divorce? And my other question..you claim to love your boyfriend,so why haven't you told him that your married? I think you should tell him at least so he knows where you stand and if he decides to stay... what a dumb bastard!
Not normal at all. Anyone who would support this is beyond selfish. Why should your husband suffer with this disloyalty and disrespect? Even if he treats you so bad that he is the reason for you to be like this then do the right thing! Leave! Do you like the idea of your bf wanting you so bad as you're married to someone else? is it mind games? Or just plain selfishness? I hope you do the right thing soon.
I think it is normal. Not very deserving of praise, but it happens a lot. Women have their reasons for betrayal or "cheating" how it's called (i hate that name, it suggests a relationship/marriage is some kind of sad game that's all about rules). I don't judge you, I'm sure your husband didn't give you good enough sex or something else happened that made you do this. Most people crave lifelong relationships, but most people aren't made to endure such relationships for more than several years, don't blame yourself.
How in the fuck can this possibly be normal?? Just because a lot of people abuse drugs doesn't make it "normal". The sad thing is the husband is probably a decent man and hard working, but those types tend to be "boring", so why not cheat right? Don't blame yourself lol, you're as dumb as the person who wrote this.
You can't cheat nature. Our culture pressures us strongly to commit to lifelong relationships, but our nature craves multiple partners. More so in men, but it holds true for women too. Even in marriages that last 50 years there definitely are episodes where one of the spouses gets infatuated in someone else, sometimes people just choose not to act on it. For the good of the children, or just thinking about not hurting their partners. But the biggest problem is that our culture tells us that having multiple partners (I'm talking consecutively, not at the same time) is wrong and evil. It's not, it's in our nature.