Is it normal that i beg my husband to fuck other women while i spy?

I am 35, others call me very attractive and beautiful, and my husband is a very fit handsome distinguished 63. I beg him to fuck other women, sometimes with threesomes, but my biggest turn on is to find unsuspecting women who think he is single and line them up sometimes two or three a day. I will do this when he goes on a golf trip to our beach house out of state, and I will turn it into a sex fest. I find them on dating sites like match.com or Plenty of Fish where I pretend to be him and talk to them. If he likes them, then I give them his phone number. He talks to them on the phone right in front of me while I suck him off. Sometimes he will call me on his phone and let me listen to him fuck them, and I masturbate while I listen. I love it, like a drug. I love it because they don't know about me, they don't know about the other women, and it even gets me off when they think they are the only one. I usually find older women, 40s and up because I am attracted more to them and because they are always willing to fuck since he is a doctor and they are looking for a meal ticket. I have him fuck them several times, then he breaks it off with them by telling them he is sorry, but he has met someone. Now my latest addition to my dark desires is that he and I make a trip together alone to our beach house, and he brings the women over and fucks them while Im in another bedroom listening. Im like a heroin addict who just found the new ultimate high. I know its bad, but I have been this way since a very young age, like 14, with every boyfriend Ive ever had, some of which have found me to be very intimidating sexually for some reason, and some thinking this was too good to be true. Until my husband though, none of them ever satisfied me sexually like he does, the chemistry is simply off the planet, and the relationship was complete taboo to begin with. Maybe thats why my interest has stayed with him so long. Ive also always been attracted to older men, since as early junior high school. Other girls had crushes on boys that were in our class, but I had crushes on their dads or older male teachers. I can't help it, I just can't. It so strange, that being this way creates some beyond the norm bond between us, like partners in crime. We can't wait to get to each other after hes been fucking, even though we always use condoms, I wont let him take a shower after he fucks them until Ive sucked him clean when he gets home. The smell of sex on him is like a drug, and I fuck him like an animal while he tells me what he did to them. I know Im playing with the devil. I don't want to make him into a bad person like me, or worse, lose him if he falls in love with one of the women I tricked into hooking up with him. I want to quit sometimes, but the need to keep on doing it controls every effort I make to stop. We have two kids, we are a very distinguished couple in our community, and to just look at us, no one would ever suspect what a freak I am. He would be happy just being normal. He has always been happy with just me. In the beginning, I had to beg him to do it for almost a year, and now we do it all the time, and I love his deviant behavior. Am I doomed to lose the only man I have ever loved?

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  • Justsomejerk

    This would be the best plot for an erotic film ever.

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  • iEatZombies_

    I imagine several people will be turned on by reading this post.

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  • Mrshighvoltage

    Refreshing to hear as I for some reason LOVe to fuck other woman's husbands with their knowledge or involvement . I am married and I don't want to change it but it is a turn on to have a woman ask me...beg me to funk their husband. I do it while they watch and they even get involved. Some just want to hear our wild sex in another room or on the phone or FaceTime. I encourage him to go back and tell his wife all about it and make love to her. Those who watch clean up the mess. I can't get enough of it. Just when I think I'll never find a woman willing someone' comes up. I've had married men hit on me only to hear me say "only if your wife watches me fuck your brains out and she cleans me up". Something about looking the wife in her eyes and moaning as she watches turns me on like a drug.

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    • Swing4fun

      Where are you from? We are from pittsburgh, I would love for you tobuck my husband, Jr is 6'3" and very athletic and fit

      My email is [email protected]

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    • Kawoman

      Message me -Heather Lindon on Facebook

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  • Eva79

    I think you may be my long lost twin sister! I am so serious, it sounds as if you just wrote my life and the way I live. It's almost scary in a sense because ages are the same as well as husbands profession. I have always thought I was the only woman who loved this lifestyle and always felt alone. After reading your post I feel so much better knowing it's not just me. I am excited I found this page, and someone who sounds so much like me, I feel like I just met the my other half! Thank you so much!Keep doing what makes you happy, because just like you what makes me happy is so intense and extreme I don't think I will ever stop. Nothing compares to this high and extreme sexual energy and unless others have done it and felt this experience they can not understand. Ignore negative comments because these are the people who are not as lucky as we are! <3

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  • diaperwolf21

    Oh wow. Thats kinky......In a wierd sociopathic way. XD

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  • prasatko

    Some men have similar desires and it has been also recognized in sexology as a sexual variation or preference under the name candaulism. I guess it is pretty rare among females but do not feel bad because of the fact that you have an unusual preference. It´s time to get rid of the negative conotation of the term "deviant" (meaning simply different and minor in my eyes). Years ago, doctors thought homosexuality and masturbation were sick behaviours, now they acknowledge that they are natural. Hopefully, in the future we will continue to change our attitudes also about other unusual preferences and practices. If you enjoy it, do not let your pleasure get spoilt by the fact that it means crossing societal values which change with time and cultures anyway...

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    • sweetsarah35

      Thank you, for not putting me down. Speaking of culture, he and I from different cultures as well. I am American, he is from India, where people never consider behaving this way. Just the fact our love survived our cultural stigmas is a miracle within itself, but the fact he caters to me with the guilt I know it probably has on him is truly remarkable. Not to mention there is a 28 year age difference

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  • fullhouse

    I am typing with my left hand..:-P

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  • squirelhunter

    That was alot to take it
    wow I dunno
    I think if I was in that situationd the guilt will catch up to me, okay mabey these women are gold diggers but what if u accidently find someone who isn't someone who actually cares and doesnt want to let go of him. What then? And also what if one of those women was you or exactly like you and shes being used.
    and wat if the condom tears and she has std and ur husband gets it then you get it off him.

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    • sweetsarah35

      I know this is bad, but in all honesty if I weren't with him, and a guy was using me for his wife's pleasure, and I somehow found out, I'd give the bitch the show of her life. Then I would make her suck his cum out of me when he was finished, and I'd do it at least weekly.
      Condom breaking, always a concern. Just pray it isn't HIV or hep. I would probably chance anything else. I'm sorry people , I know I have an illness. If she falls in love with him, fuck her. Everyone will get used at least once in our lives, me included. Gives us character. If he falls in love with her? She better be very damn interesting, because after living the excitement he gets with me, a regular lady just won't do it for him now. If he falls in love with someone else because of what I do, I'm pretty sure I'll just kill myself. Maybe I should just call a shrink?

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Wow. That was intense. I think it's normal to think about that, but not to act on it to that extreme. You should be more honest with everyone involved.

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    • sweetsarah35

      I wish I could be honest. Being honest takes out the thrill for me. The women I tend to pick out are the ones who are very materialistic, very self centered, and very much snotty. I always hype up his profile and focus on his career that he is a physician. They drop like greedy flies into my trap, and its always the same type of woman. When I have him use them, then dump them its a huge sexual thrill for me. I don't feel bad. Sweet simple women struggling to make it, I just can never bring myself to pick one because I have too much guilt over it. Your right, I should be honest. Im really going to try a better way. Thank you for replying

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      • myboyfriendsbitch

        Oh well then they deserve it and there is no problem here ;)

        But seriously, I think this may be a problem that roots in some insecurity you may have. Do you feel like your husband is more sexually attracted to these type women than he is to you? Do you ever feel jealousy toward any of the women? Has this type of woman somehow wronged you in your past?

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        • sweetsarah35

          I never feel jealous of them, and I don't understand why. I should be, and I even want to be, but I'm just not. If anything, I'm sexually attracted to them,but only in the regard of being fucked like a dog by my husband. No one has ever wronged me, and when I'm in the act I feel like a powerful sex goddess. Farthest thing from insecure.

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          • noelwood

            Wish my wife was half as sexual as you Sarah!

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        That is not really fair to these women. They deserve to be told. What if one day a women actually develops feelings for them? They will be heart broken so you can have your sick thrills. What if one takes it seriously and believes one day they will get married. So when things escalate he has to tell them "Sorry I was amusing my bored wife who got a kick out of me using women".

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  • Swing4fun

    Omg, finally another woman like me, I am the same exact way, I also had to beg my husband , only difference is he tells woman about what we do and some still have sex with him, but we get escorts, but I will now try the dating rights too.....i have tried to stop but I can't

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  • Moocock

    I congratulate you on being such a wise and understanding woman of making a mans needs and fantasies coming true. Your husband is a very lucky man indeed.

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  • DavidS.

    its called voyeurism....we all have it a little bit...you have it a lot...so its normal ....just that you take it to a big level...you get off being the director of peoples lives....maybe you could be a porno producer/director....

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    That is nutty

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  • sweetsarah35

    I have truly never been happier than I am with him, and the life we live

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  • sweetsarah35

    Hahahaha! That makes me feel a little better actually. I hate feeling like the only freak in the world :(

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