Is it normal that i become obsessed with everything i can't have?

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A guy who I didn't care about were flirting with me and clearly wanted me. When I rejected him he started to talk to one of my friends. They are kind of going out now and it makes me furious for some reason. I even considered sleeping with him just to destroy things between them. I feel this way about everything I can't have and want to ruin it.
Even if I didn't care at all before I become obsessed with everything I can't have and resent the people who have it.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    You sound like an irrational bitch. Change the way you look at life, or be prepared to be lonely.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Woo-hoo!

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        Yeah, I can be sympathetic to most people, but some just strike that right combination of factors that make me want to pick up a 2 wood and yell "'Fore!"

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    What you're doing with this jealousy is a great way to make yourself miserable. Don't try to sleep with this guy just to mess things up for your friend, because you'll basically just be giving people a reason to dislike or even hate you. No one likes a jealous home wrecker type of gal, and with good reason!

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    It's jealousy and it's irrational. Very typical of women, and it's why women don't work well together. Doubt you can change. Just be more aware.

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  • Whenthebeestings
    7 years ago

    Why don't you have a look into the philosophy of Buddhism, becoming a Buddhist can really help you with these things. Buddhism is about not desiring things and therefore being more happy.

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  • Philia
    7 years ago

    This may be relevant

    https://youtu.be/wbISbWyQmqg?t=266

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  • bittermayonnaise
    7 years ago

    your a woman.

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