Is it normal that i become a different person when i lose weight?

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When I'm fit and in shape, I know I'm quite pretty, and it makes me so so confident I feel like I can do anything. I'm never shy, and I'd be up for anything (not meant to sound dirty here)

When I gain weight like I have done recently at uni, I become a completely different person. I find myself disgusting, and it makes it hard to get the energy to go out or meet up with friends because I feel like there is no point. I become very withdrawn and pretty negative. I stop making an effort in anything I do, and my life loses meaning.

Also, I love flirting and being around boys when I'm fit, but when I gain weight, I keep as far away as possible from any remotely attractive boy as I can't see the point and would be too embarrassed anyway!

Does weight have these kind of extremes on most people?

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  • paradox90
    11 years ago

    It's normal, but be aware that attraction does not rely solely on your shape. Once, I knew a girl that was chubby, but so adorable and charming that I found her quite sexy...I'd love to meet her again, she is really cute.

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