Is it normal that i barely know this guy and i am obsessed?

Okay, so there was this older guy by about 4 years and I was in love with him. I mean I was sooo in love. I started to think he kind of sort of had the hots for me, I mean he would always stare and smile at me but never start a conversation. So I got over my obsession, but every time I see him I become obsessed again. I want to talk to him but I am scared of how it will all fan out..

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  • I have this affect on women..

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  • sqwidword33

    actually, i'm going to assume you have never retained the important expieriance that results from concluded obsession. I believe it will be hurtfull, but important, that you find yourself obsessing over two things simutainiously. you should try and learn from this.

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  • sqwidword33

    obsession is thirst, not dehidration.

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  • alv1592

    You shouldn't get so emotionally attatched, since you barely know him. Just wondering, how old are you? 4 years is nothing if you're both adults. But if you're a minor & he's past the age of consent, it's illegal.

    Anyway, maybe it's time to let him know how you feel. Even if he's not interested, at least you know you can move on. Good luck.

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  • ygrowup

    You should act on your feelings and tell him, often guys date girls much younger!

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