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My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship. He's very busy a lot. I notice that I argue a lot with him and when he yells at me, I feel relieved? Why? Is it because I don't get enough attention? And is this normal?
Hmm long distance relationships are hard. Most of the time you're away from the person you want to be with and it's stressful. When you do see him you're probably not upset anymore, and you don't want to waste the time you have with him arguing more, right?
It could be for attention, I guess. You start arguments for no real reason and when he yells at you, you realize you're being ridiculous and calm down.
Just think about it, you can say what you need to say without causing a fight. Talk about things and hear how this makes him feel and what you can do together to change this cycle.
Do you ever think you'll get the chance to see him girl, I hope you do :( hopefully y'all will be able to sit down and talk and hug and hopefully not fight. I want things to get better child.