Is it normal that i am willing to sleep with a guy and ...

... in exchange he pay some of my bills? And does that qualify me to be a prostitute? I don't do it very often, honestly. Only with a few guts. Cause I have alot of bills and there are guys who flirt with me alot at work. Im single too. They offer to buy me gifts and gas. So eventually I joked and said how about you give me the money for my phone bill then? And he said that he would if I would sleep with him. So I did. Been doing this for about 9 months now. But I feel guilty. I work should pay my own bills and not rely on others for support... help?!

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Comments ( 42 )
  • :)BABYDOLL:)

    Part time hooker.

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    • MarieWantsIt

      Don't be hard on the girl. She's broke and in need. She doesn't need kicking. I would say that if she likes the guys and enjoys the sex, she shouldn't have any hang ups. If she sleeps with guys she doesn't like she's a whore. If she likes them, she has a business arrangement.

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      • :)BABYDOLL:)

        Lol! WOW!

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  • Crimson_Guardian

    Yes, this is considered prostitution. It's paying for sex!

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  • pixie_dust

    ur selling urself short, bcuz real happiness is when ur with someone u love. u said urself ur kibd of depressed. when the kind of guy that could make u so happy, plus be a financial support too, could come along, but u won't have quite the same awesome vibe in ur spirit that u once had. one of the most important things i've learned from my family, is that love ALWAYS is more important than money. don't ignore ur conscience.

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  • I'm married.

    My husband pays for the bills, my car, my gas, my weed, and well, everything else!

    And I even have sex with him.

    Does that make me a prostitute?
    Some think so, but I don't give a rat's ass!

    ;-) Do what you're comfortable with. This is one of those things where you don't owe anyone an explanation and you shouldn't care what others think.

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    • it doesnt make you a prostitute just a bitch

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    • captblood44

      KOO ! ! and that's what i keep saying. it just amazes me that people can't see it. "but, but, i have a piece of paper and said words. i only fuck one guy for my money"

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    • greenriverman

      Yes. You're on retainer.

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  • one_guy

    Lol, yes it qualifies as prostitution. I'm pretty sure that's what prostitutes use their money for. Paying bills, and buying nice things. And well not really normal.

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  • uschiuschi

    i think it's prostitution but there's nothing wrong with it. you're just doing something you like and get paid for it. and you need that money. so who cares do whatever you want.

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    well its easy moeny, but i personally wouldnt do it, if your ok with doing it then its noone elses business i suppose

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  • hokisgurl

    Well I'm guilty as charged. advice Just have pep in your step and don't live life with no regret

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  • Austalien

    hahaha got to get by right, I don't judge :)

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  • gators=amazing

    its not prositiution, it just means your struggling and need a little help, there is nothing wrong with getting help.. just think of it as killing 2 birds with one stone. you get dick and your phone bill is paid for another month..win win situation!haha

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  • dutchy

    you either call it prostitution or marriage

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  • Mike_Towcester

    If I was a woman, I'd charge for sex lol. Don't you mind what anybody says! Enjoy yourself and get paid. Fab!

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  • Chillpill

    Regardless of what people would call it, I don't think this is a very good habit to fall into. If you're unable to provide for yourself by other means, you're on a course of developing a negative self-image and possibly losing your self-respect. Secondly I'm not sure but I wonder if this would make you desensitized towards your own feelings (unless you also derive some physical pleasure from it)

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  • panvicka

    yes it's prostitution but hey, why not...

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  • AngAnders112

    "can you pay my bills? can you pay my telephone bills? can you pay my automobiles? if you did, then maybe we could chill [read: I'll fuck you.]"

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  • Are you exploiting them, or are they exploiting you ? ;)

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  • luvinsumdix

    It's clearly prostitution, oh, and super fucking slutty. Whorezilla!

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    • Farker4Ever

      ...says "luvinsumdix"

      LOL

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  • MostlyCorrect

    You are just very shallow. Wanting others to pay for things, give gifts, or anything of that nature and you are willing to exchanges your good for their goods - that makes you legally a prostitute. Sex with an ultimatium means you are not normal.

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  • emilydoll

    And yes it's prostitution.

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  • emilydoll

    As long as you're not disrespecting yourself, sleeping with hot guys not just anyone and you're not a homewrecker or do drugs... Actually it still seems kind of unattractive but I don't know you just don't be dumb or do anything that is against your well being.

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  • koolkeepn

    yes definitly a prostitute... take down my number...contact me. I'll pay

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  • Farker4Ever

    I'm just kidding. I'd say your more of a softcore gold digger

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  • Farker4Ever

    I reported this post to your local police station.

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  • roses.are.red

    sure its fine if you don't mind being called a goldigger, and a whore who has no respect for herself. you know i have to say women who think that is 'ok' or 'normal are either desensitized or just plain dumb...or they are trying to make themselves feel better because that's what they do and they know its wrong. the other day i found this audio book about "how to use women" where some ugly chauvinistic pig rants about how women have the mindsets of prostitutes. this really made me furious as i have never personally encountered any female who is like that! and i hate hearing man talk about how all women want is money! it isn't true and is a horrible mentality to have towards us females, its just plain disrespectful. in any case as i was listening to this pigs bullshit i realized this is what men who want to sleep with women listen to! this is why there are so many assholes all over the place taking advantage of great women! because sad to say the chauvinistic pig was right, there really are women who have the mindsets of prostitutes. i find this both disgusting and sad! if your job isn't paying you well get another job, ask for a raise, move in with a good friend until you can get to where you want to be financially, or move to somewhere cheaper. the list of options are endless! but don't sell your body for money there isn't much lower you can go from there. and all though there may be marriages where the women stays at home the same thing happens the other way around, there are women who work while the man stays at home. we each have roles to fill in a relationship generally the person who stays home also has a job, whether it be running the house, or taking care of the kids, paying the bills etc, just because you aren't collecting a paycheck doesn't mean those aren't jobs. under no circumstance should sex be used as a bargaining tool, both people should be willing of their own accord or else it really isn't normal.

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    • captblood44

      you don't think woman turn golddigger when they get divorced? its like you had sex with me, now you need to pay up.

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  • eggsandbacon

    tht aint right...wht would uu say if uur lor sis (if uu have one) did tht...uu kno thts nasty as hell too trynna make excussessssssssssssss...ewwwww

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  • Privacy101

    In that case that would make most of us females hookers..we've all been treated out....dining out...movies..sometimes. jewelry...cars.... when married some wives stay at home....so men pay for everything....a signed piece of paper justifies prostitution? No. It's not prostitution...if you'd have sex with him reguardless it's not. If he offers...and you accept. It's fine. Most of the people who disagree are either bitter men or women that have been used or tried and didn't succeed. We have a fucked up economy. If help is offered why not? As long as you don't do it just for the money then it doesn't make you a hooker. You have a choice. Live life the way you want it to be...and make of it as you wish.

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    • captblood44

      i like :)

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  • litnas

    you are a prostitute,

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  • BoredGuy

    em.. money in exchange of sex... I don't know, lets look it up:

    prostitute [ˈprɒstɪˌtjuːt]
    n
    1. a woman who engages in sexual intercourse for money

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  • curiousmelon

    Well yes,you are a part time hooker.But i'm not judging you.In fact,i wish I could do that.If you can tolerate random guys in your bedroom in exchange for money,then you have solved all your money problems.Oh,think about going pro.It has a lot of money

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  • MarieWantsIt

    If you enjoy the sex, and if you will sleep only with guys you like, it's not prostitution. Marriage can be a bit like your arrangement if the wife doesn't have paid employment :_)

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  • amigay

    this has been since the days of Adam and Eve...he bit the apple and then got laid...and planted her an orchard...basically married people have the same set up...quote un quote under the sanctuary of the church it is ok...if you want to believe that...sometimes you do what you have to do or starve to death... Sometimes you do it because it feels ok and has become a standard for you...that is not so good

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  • one_guy

    And to thisissomuchfun. That's dumb of course it doesn't qualify you as a prostitute. Maybe if you weren't married it would. And 2 he's your husband! he's gonna pay for stuff he's the provider. Is like him saying you're his housekeeper because you clean the house and cook etc.. Shoot he could say the same. Geez!! And that's just if you do so.

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  • hokisgurl

    I ment regret

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  • It`s fine.

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