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I have turned many girls down because I want to save my first kiss for someone special to me
Wow, you see so many vulgar comments on this website like "Get laid!" "iin that I slept with over 15 people" and right here I'm looking at all the virgins on the website. I actually respect someone on this site?? Excuse my disbelief, I'm just pleasantly surprised. Where were all the nice guys holding onto their 1st kiss when I was single? Despite my rude use of the word virgin, I mean no offence :P
Exactly what i am doing. And like space ghost i too have never had to turn anyone down. Funny thing to is that there was a girl i had been talking to who said she would save her first kiss for that special someone.....well that didn't happen she wasted it with some guy who the day after threw her out like a bag of trash so ya definitely saving my first kiss for that special someone. Same thing goes with sex.
Completely normal. Now, I wasn't turning down people left and right, but I had multiple opertunities to kiss or go out with quite a few people before I found someone I really loved. I waited... It was my best friend, and completely worth it<3
You sir are a very respectful man! You are one of the only descent men left on this planet, I hope you find that special someone.
That's how it's SUPPOSED to work. I think our society has a bad balance between physical romance and love. We're tilted a little too far toward the side of physical romance. In other words, too many people focus on sex before they even understand love. But for a perfect relationship to happen, I think everyone can agree that there should be both LOVE and SEX. Each are better when you have the other to complement them. Sex is better when you're in love with the person, and being in love can be intensified by physical encounters or sex.
I don't think it really matters which comes first, as long as you keep that end goal in mind. If you accidentally kiss someone you don't really love, that's okay! It's no big deal. You'll have plenty more tries to get it right. In fact, there's nothing wrong with a little practice OR just a little fun. Expressing your sexual self identity is important, too! Suppressing your sex drive is just as bad as suppressing your heart.
Take it from me, though. Kissing someone you actually care about is one of the greatest feelings in the world. Kissing someone you don't really care about is just kind of slobbery and boring.
SEX, yeah i agree 100%, kiss, just do it. make you feel a whole lot better, cause one day. those girls might not be there, or moved on. happened to me. im still recovering form that
Same here, I'm hoping that it will be worth it. Although, I've never had to turn anyone down. I'd say that it's great that your patient.
People are bound to give their first kiss to a girl they love, that is unless they are kidnapped by lady gangsters!!!!
Kind of sounds like one of those manga comics when the girls freak out about their first kiss. I applaud you for your mission and your ability to see the passion that can go on between 2 people, but it's kind of a chaste act. Sex is the big one to be stingy about.
Kissing is a basic form of intimacy. What that statement sounds like is a person trying to justify a basic fear of intimacy.
I wish most people were like you, so many people these days are very trashy with how they act.
That's really sweet, not many guys would do that nowadays. And it's most deifnately normal :)
That is so sweet! I'm sure the girl you will find would like to know that you reserved it for her
Just kiss the first person your attracted to that offers saving yourself is all good and well but when you get to be in your mid 20s if you are still a virgin and your interested in dating a woman your age the gap in sexual experience is not going to strengthen your relationship and trust there are very few 25-28 year old women who are dating material and virgins. Girls that are date able and are saving themselves for marriage are either married or engaged by this time. Get laid as soon and as often as you can just use condoms. Sex and love are exclusive things you can have one without the other
Of course it's normal, wait it out until you're sure but just remember it's not always gonna happen like it does in the movies!
Why save a kiss. You'll probably end up disappointing that person you really want to kiss because lack of experience. Practice on multiple women that way when the one does come around she'll be impressed
Looks like samson, spaceghost, and I are in the sameboat. Being single sucks :(