Is it normal that i am unhappy because of what i look like???

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i am 18 nearly 19 still a virgin never had a gf. i am the biggest loser i know, due to how i look i am quiet, got no confidence/self esteem and shy.

i am 6'2 170lbs blonde hair blue eyes pale skin. The two main reasons why i am so ugly is that i am really really pale and because of my fair hair i look albino or something and i am really skinny. i am more concerned with how pale my skin is though.

All of my friends have dates and i am the only single one, girls are just not interested in me and its only because i am so pale. i don't know what to do. its hard for me to tan in summer and i am not using a sunbed.

also what would you say a good weight for me would be?

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  • Koda
    12 years ago

    If you pretend to be confident, you'll start to actually believe it and actually become confident. This actually worked for me. I used to really hate the way I looked and felt really shy as well. But I just started pretending I thought I was awesome... not cocky, just confident and self-assured, and sure enough... way more people started to notice me and talk to me. More girls were interested in me, and people weren't awkward around me anymore.

    Confidence is really worth so much more than looks. Look around. I bet you know a lot of people with gfs/bfs that are way uglier than you are. I certainly do. A lot of girls love natural blond hair, and if you're concerned about being pale, use a realistic spray tan. They look great, don't streak, and won't damage your skin like UV does. Just don't cheap out. BTW you already are an excellent weight for your height.

    Good luck, buddy! I know you can be confident, just try it, you'll see! You're a great person, and everyone who loves you knows it... you just have it to believe it yourself and everything will get better. It's hard being young...

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      This is so true.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Pale skin is good.

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  • owner217
    12 years ago

    how are you really skinny if you are 170? you cant be that skinny im like 6 foot an 150 im pretty damn skinny but u cant be that bad if u have 20 pounds on me

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  • esiidesu
    12 years ago

    oh my gawd for me you sound like an angel .__.

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  • beagle101tb
    12 years ago

    You sound really sweet though.
    If you put yourself out there and talk to some girls, you will find the right one who accepts you for who you are.
    Getting into some sports might help you become more confident, too.

    And don't worry about your weight, it sounds good to me. But I guess if you are really concerned, ask your doctor. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Just talk to them dude. Just talk to them.

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  • SerialSinner
    12 years ago

    I don't know but I really like guys who are very, very pale, especially those with a dark hair. They remind me of corpses.

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    • Jan_Zondernaam
      12 years ago

      Are you a necrophiliac or something?

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      • SerialSinner
        12 years ago

        You probably will never know.

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