Is it normal that i am the most talkative person in groups but...

When I am talking alone one to one with a girl I just can't find anything to say, and say the stupidest things. It's downright annoying, for example, I like this one girl. I'm almost POSITIVE she likes me and we can talk fine in groups. But when we're both dancing together I can't find anything to talk about really except what's currently going on I.E. "Great party huh?". I'm just not the type to be able to start a conversation and I fear she isn't one either. As much as I'd love to talk I can't find anything to say. Is this a phase? Will it go away eventually and will I learn to circumvent it or will I have to stick with this all my life? IIN?

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  • disthing

    If it's really a problem, write some conversation ideas down before you are going to spend time with her, on a little note or something, keep it in your pocket and then if you get a moment refresh your memory. Stuff which you or her have done recently, things you want to ask her or hear about.

    Might help :)

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  • MissClaire

    you will learn to have better one-on-one covo as you get older - so long as you try to improve...... google some ideas:)

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    • Appreciate

      try talking about waffles :3

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      • MissClaire

        LMFAO - exactly!

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    I wouldn't worry too much about it...

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