Is it normal that i am still in love with someone who is a jerk

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Is it normal that I am still in love with my high school ex boyfriend? Hes a tool and a total jerk and somehow i still let him control me (via text because i haven't even seen him in the last year), but i cant move on i constantly ask him to hang out or see me and he thinks im crazy. He's a rude ass whole and always has been towards me. He cheated on me a few times in high school and when i finally retaliated at the age of 18 (now 23) he still reminds me of how horrible of a person i am for cheating after he had done the same several times.. i want him to want me again but don't really want to be with him what the hell is wrong with me and how do i move on for good?? please help! For some reason i still care what he thinks about me and let him control my feelings.. i literally break up with boys when he finds out in hopes that he'll come back to me, only to be let down and hurt by him once again.

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  • ebonysky
    12 years ago

    It's normal because you have unresolved issues. I have that problem too. My ex doesn't take my feelings into consideration. What helps me is writing a letter. Tell your feelings and let it all out. Sometime putting to paper what you can't say helps. Don't send it. Keep it and look at it from time to time. Be very honest about your feelings and what he did to you. It will get better

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  • shay7marie
    12 years ago

    i though iin was for me? and what i want to do with it?

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  • KatieLiz
    12 years ago

    Stop texting him then. And shouldn't you only make the one IIN for the same problem? Stop spamming

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