Is it normal that i am starting to doubt this new guy

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About 3 weeks ago I met a guy through a mutual friend. The night we met he seemed very interested in me. Unfortunately, he lives in another state, about a 12hour drive away. When he left the next day he found me on Facebook and we started talking, getting to know eachother. He then asked for my number and started texting everyday. A week ago he came back to visit for our friends birthday. Again we were together the whole night. Since he left he has text me every morning and throughout the day and has called me a few times. My concern is that I had mentioned I wanted to visit him but he has not set a date. I would think that if you wanted to see someone you would make plans right? He said he does want me to come out but he has not given me any specific details or days... Am I being paranoid and overreacting?

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  • Bijoofoo
    11 years ago

    I think you're being paranoid a little... Just set a date or suggest a couple of dates and see which one works for him.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    He's married...

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    Hahahaha, seriously, women are fucking crazy. Stop over thinking this shit man, you're gonna scare this dude off with all this crazy intense shit. CHILL OUT!

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  • suishokiba
    11 years ago

    yeah I don't get why people do that. you say you want to hangout and nothing happens. I recommend asking him what days would be fine to go see him, or him see you. if any day is fine, then make some plans.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Maybe he wants you to say a date or maybe his place is a shit tip and he wants it nice and neat before you come over his leg

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