Is it normal that i am so worried that my child will be raised badly?

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My daughter is being born in a couple months and I am just so worried! I keep on thinking I am going to end up being a terrible father, I swear quite frequently and I own a vast collection of mature movies and games. I am also worried about the neighborhood, Boston is a pretty bad place to live. The crime rate a descent percent and drugs are almost everywhere! Please help help me out by giving me some parenting advice, That would help out alot. And yes, My girlfriend hates abortions.

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  • anti-hero
    9 years ago

    I am more worried that she is imaginary. Since you lie about everything else. You're from Boston now? When did that happen?

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    • Stifler
      9 years ago

      Not "from", I have moved to. I have been up to quite a bit in the time I have been gone. Now, I understand you don't believe ANYTHING I say. The least you could do is keep it to your self alright? I grow tired of arguing with you.

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      • anti-hero
        9 years ago

        If you didn't lie all the time, people would believe you when/if you tell the truth.

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        • Stifler
          9 years ago

          Sadly, The only thing I have lied about so far is taking Sleeping Pills and Redbull. Everything else has been the truth and nothing but the truth.

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          • anti-hero
            9 years ago

            What about the fake stock photo of the Asian McDonalds worker you claimed was you and I disproved?

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            • Stifler
              9 years ago

              Hush, Before I have to change my identity again.

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  • Treehugger29
    9 years ago

    First, try not to worry. Do what you feel is right.

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  • DeanWilkonson
    9 years ago

    there aint no worries about your child being in a gang son. You learn street smarts and how to be interacting with others. They dont need no education. If you be smart on da streets, chu dont need no books or class to get ahead.

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  • daisydukes
    9 years ago

    You obviously are worried about being a good father thats what MOST good parents worry about at first. 1st understand every parent makes mistakes. Rid yourself from all laziness and irresponsibility. Be the parent you've always wanted in your life as a child. Every little girl looks up to her father. If you want your daughter to honor and respect you, respect her by respecting women starting with her mother and everything is sure to fall in place. Work, save up to move to a better area. Every decision you make now effects your daughters future so think wisely. Congratulations and welcome to parent hood. (Random advice but helpful)

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    • Stifler
      9 years ago

      Thank you for your words, I will try to live up to them.

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    • anti-hero
      9 years ago

      Don't worry. This kid is like 14 and makes up stories. No real baby to worry about.

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      • daisydukes
        9 years ago

        Wasting my time and good effort. Smh..ppl <<< but thanks.

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        • anti-hero
          9 years ago

          Welcome to IIN.

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          • daisydukes
            9 years ago

            Lmao I have no time for fakes. I have real life issues that I need input on. People are so ignorant.

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            • anti-hero
              9 years ago

              You may be in the wrong place then :/

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