Is it normal that i am so so unhappy because of what i look like???

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I am 18 nearly 19 still a virgin never had a gf. i am the biggest loser i know, due to how i look i am quiet, got no confidence/self esteem and shy.

we all know girls want the 'tall dark handsome' type and i am the opposite. i am 6'2 170lbs blonde hair blue eyes pale skin. The two main reasons why i am so ugly is that i am really really pale and because of my fair hair i look albino or something and i am really skinny. i am more concerned with how pale my skin is though.

All of my friends have dates and i am the only single one, girls are just not interested in me and its only because i am so pale. i don't know what to do. its hard for me to tan in summer and i am not using a sunbed.

for instance the few times i have been clubbing not a single girl has ever even come up to me and it seems that wherever i go, people naturally want to avoid me. i feel as if i shouldn't even be living at times as for no reason people just love to avoid me and leave me out, and i know its all down to what i look like.

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  • Almostreal
    11 years ago

    Dude. Look around you. No one looks perfect and goddammit there are some weird looking people out there who are getting laid plenty.

    Everyone has their own taste and their own idea of what's attractive BUT having said that, self pity and resentment is sexual kryptonite for most women. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and start looking at what you like in other people. Start being someone likable( ie: liking other people instead of expecting the worst of them) and people will like you. Start enjoying other peoples company and they might enjoy yours.

    Girls are individuals you know , not just a homogeneous blob of opinion. Each and every girl is going to find different traits attractive...Oh and they don't approach you, you approach them. if you don't they think you don't like them.

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    • Tysterkaar
      11 years ago

      Amen

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  • Thewomanizer
    11 years ago

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ( remember that) =)

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  • bigtoy
    11 years ago

    Dye your hair black and get a part in a vampire movie...once you're a film star the girls will be lining up to get you in the sack.

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  • alv1592
    11 years ago

    You shouldn't feel that way. Maybe girls are too shy to talk to you. Perhaps you should make the first move. Good luck. :]

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  • borderlineamazing1
    11 years ago

    It's probably your lack of confidence

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  • BurnaBaby27
    11 years ago

    Spray tan and dye your hair.
    Typically, not a lot of girls are going to come up to you. Go up to them.

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    • Lolada
      11 years ago

      I understand why are WE (guys) that have to come up to the girls,but why don't they come up to us? We to like to be abroad and asked out,we do have feelins,it's not like the hipotalomus of our brain is full of stone for all the emotion we don't have.

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      • BurnaBaby27
        11 years ago

        Speaking from a woman's perspective, a lot of us like guys to make the first move on things because it shows that you are interested. You approach us, you ask us out, you call / text us, you send us flowers, you buy us gifts.
        We always have you in mind because we always have a lot on our minds. We can think of our guy, meeting the 4 o'clock deadline, what we're making for dinner, what we're going to wear the next day, etc all at once. Guys tend to only think about one thing at a time, your minds don't race like ours do. Doing things like that shows us that you were thinking of us.
        This is my opinion.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

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    Weight train & use sunbeds then.

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  • Thatguy777
    10 years ago

    At least you're not 105lb white guy that looks 12. You would have already offed yourself

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  • Steve92
    11 years ago

    Have a plastic surgery then. Its expansive, but worth it.

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  • Java
    11 years ago

    Can't be as bad as Brian Peppers.

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  • BlackDays
    11 years ago

    Awww, someone will love you just the way you are :)

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  • BettyBoobs
    11 years ago

    Grow a beard

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  • stealmysocks
    11 years ago

    with your looks then yes it is.

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