Is it normal that i am sexually aroused by very overweight people?

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I'm just being honest here... I am what most people would consider a very attractive, young woman. I'm tall and thin with a nice figure. Although of course I tend to date similarly attractive, thin men, I find myself very aroused by men as well as women who are obese-- even morbidly obese! I fear that eventually my fetish will overrule my attraction towards typically good looking men and that I will end up sleeping around with fat, unattractive people secretly or something. I'm not even playing. It's a rational fear! I fantasize about becoming a prostitute and catering to fat, older, unattractive people. What's up with this strange fetish? Is it normal at all? What does it mean?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    what's wrong with sleeping with fat people? why is it a "rational fear"? are fat people lesser than thin people? If you're attracted to fatter people then go on a date with one. Then maybe you'll realize there's NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING ATTRACTED TO LARGER PEOPLE.

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    • abnormalgirl91
      11 years ago

      Okay, I wasn't saying being with a fat person is a "rational fear". I was saying that, FOR ME, sleeping around and prostitution are rational fears. And I really didn't say there was anything wrong with dating fat people and I would date a fat person. I just have a morbid fetish of it that has little to do with the type of body I am actually attracted to. Also, I am talking morbidly obese here. Not just chubby or even overweight. I just thought my fat fetish was weird because typically people are attracted to others who look healthy and a morbidly obese person is typically unhealthy.

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      • quentari
        11 years ago

        Okay so your actual question was "IIN that my attraction to overweight people is making me scared that one day I'll become a prostitute?"

        Because in your OP it clearly says "I fear that eventually my fetish will overrule my attraction towards typically good looking men and that I will end up sleeping around with fat, unattractive people secretly or something"

        Which implies that your fear is sleeping around with fat people, not sleeping around in general.

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        • abnormalgirl91
          11 years ago

          Well yeah because I'm not attracted towards thin people in a sexually promiscuous way. So yes my fear is sleeping around but that would only happen due to my fat fetish. Do you really have to pick apart what I'm saying like that? I was just wondering if it was a common thing...

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          • quentari
            11 years ago

            I only picked it apart because it just sounded like you didn't want to date fat people. You are capable of making your own decisions so you should be able to tell yourself "no, I won't sleep with lots of people." and if you do become promiscuous that's okay too, because you are a consenting adult.

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    • Goomats
      11 years ago

      Thank you.

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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    I'd be your perfect partner baby. Let's indulge and have a secrete affair cos I have a fetish for young, gorgeous, nimble and attractive woman.

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    • disfunkshinal
      11 years ago

      Lol. Bet you do, Gravy.

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      • Gravy
        11 years ago

        It is Christmas, indulge yourself :-)

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        • disfunkshinal
          11 years ago

          Lolololo

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  • Bobtailcatgirl
    6 years ago

    Ew fat guys are gross

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  • Goomats
    11 years ago

    I could be wrong, but it sounds like you are in denial. If you are haunted by fantasies of getting with heavy people and a FEAR that you will somehow give into this, then it's probably a done deal and you will have to come to terms.
    I have the same deal. I admit it causes me some insecurity, but life does that. Try dating a heavy guy and see how it feels. It might feel liberating, orgasmic and fantastic.
    I don't date fit/thin men (I am thin). I don't make a big deal about it with people I know but I just DON'T because if I did, I would go out and cheat and get with fat dudes anyway. Save everybody the drama. Just go with it.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    More normal than you might think.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Fat fetish.

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  • SEWnanist23
    11 years ago

    Then You'll have TONS of Fun!

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  • Ijustknowimweird
    11 years ago

    Oh and I dont mean you like fattening people, i meant that there are men who like obese people and then enjoy fattening them, sorry xD

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    I suffer from the same fetish. All though I wouldn't want to be a male prostitude for them.

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  • Ijustknowimweird
    11 years ago

    There are men like you, that enjoy fattening their lovers. Personally I think thats almost like violence, because to be fat is very bad for your health. But regarding the fetish, I guess a lotof peoplemhave it too, so maybe its normal. May I ask if your parents are fat? Dnt be offended please

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