Is it normal that i am severely shy?

Like I get way too self conscious, I'm ok w the way I look. And I'm really not into what ppl think of me. It's so hard to relax around ppl tho. If I get into that moment of (omg) for no reason.. I'll start sweating, get shaky, my face will turn beat red. Even if I'm just sittin in class, mindin my own business, If I think someones lookin at me.. I'll just go into that self conscience hold. Or even if I'm payin for something at a store, I have issues man. Idk my problem lol. And I'm 18, if that helps w anything.

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  • not to be nasty but people dont care, they really dont and also sometimes they just look at something attractive. they cant look away they are drawn to it

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  • BallerinaCass

    I'm the same way, people will talk to me and I'll just feel so uncomfortable that I won't ever look at them, I'll only look at everything else lol.

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  • JayantKumarZ

    i feel the same sometimes

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  • Piraguaboy

    Its sort of normal, because many people have what you're describing, but it isn't shyness, but more of a paranoid anxiety. I know a few with that issue. Your self-conscious tells you that - 'someone is staring at you, BUT don't be nervous.' But, what is the first thing we do when someone tells us not to get nervous? WE GET NERVOUS. So this is more of a psychological problem, from my view. Best of luck to you, and I hope you can overcome this. :)

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  • baby.girl

    When they stare @u just stare back...lol it creeps them out sometimes

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  • Naw its normal. I hate when people stare at me, i think they see something wrong.haha and i turn away or i start smiling really hard. idk whats wrong with me either. I couldnt help you if i wanted to because im just as lost. But maybe you should get to the core of why you act like this, is it your ashamed of being embarrassed or called out or what?

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