Is it normal that i am scared to tell my gf that i want to break up

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i am in a relationship for almost two years. We were thinking to marry till 5-6months ago. Now i dont want to marry her and i dont feel anything to her but i cant tell her this because She loves me very very much and i dont want to hurt her and few months ago we promised to not to break up and marry after college. God damn i everyday say to her that i love her with a big pain. Now pls tell me wat to do. How am i gonna get outa this shit..

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  • mevsyou
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way man. I've been with my girl for 4 or 5 years. I begun hating her around 2 years into it. But I haven't had the balls to man up and end it. Mostly bc we live together. Unless you want to end up stick like me I would suggest that you go ahead and do it. Now that I'm ready to dump her, I'm facing being homeless for a while.

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  • sweetlemon
    13 years ago

    just tell the truth..

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    Wow just do it tell her you are a huge asshole and she deserves better much better all which is true

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Man up a$$ hole. It's not fair to her if you stay with her if you really don't have feelings for her

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Wat I would do is just start to drift and don't really interact with eachother and she will be less interested and then just say that you think that you want a break(if you no wat I mean) and you want to see other people

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    I agree with "Hiswifey359"

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  • hiswifey359
    13 years ago

    The longer u hide ur real feelings, the worse!! Stop being a coward!! Man up and tell her before thi gs get worse!!

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  • neskic
    13 years ago

    If you love her like that, be honnest.
    Even if it will be hard for her to face the reality. Be sure she has friends for help. She may hate you for a while if you broke up.

    But your life will not be only about a lie. You need for yourself something else. And eventually start over again.

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  • black127
    13 years ago

    It can sometimes help if u distance urself for about a week also google how to break up u mite learn a few things that can help.

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  • Askyouknow
    13 years ago

    His right be a man and walk it off...it will hurt some people but better cry now than later...oh yeah one last thing Harrypotter watch out for voldemort he has that dildo stick...

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    Man up and do it man only hurting yourself and her by draging it out. Yeah she will cry ect and you will feel like shit for awhile but it will be for the best.

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