Is it normal that i am scared of having sex?

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my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years, he is not a virgin and we've been close to do it a few times but I always get scared, he always tells me it doesn't matter and that he's going to wait, but a few days ago i read on his phone a conversation of him with his best friend telling him about how he misses sex, I feel guilty about not having sex with him, what should I do? Is it normal that after two years of dating I am still not ready?

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Based on 6 votes (4 yes)
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  • cupcake_wants
    11 years ago

    It's sweet he doesnt want to pressure u into it bcuz he cares more about you than sex (which it bshould be) do not b in a hurry to do it. At the right moment, u ought to tell him u appreciate that he values your feelings more than missing sex. Dont tell him youd be willing to "compromise" and give it up earlier bcuz that makes u look spineless (to guys? Boooring.. next?) But just say you appreciate it.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Don't feel guilty, if you're scared you're scared. Nothing you can do about it.

    How old are you guys btw?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Don't rush things for the sake of him missing sex.

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