Is it normal that i am rebounding with a guy 7 years older than me??

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I am 17 and about a month ago, me and my boyfriend broke up (one year long relationship! pretty long for high school...), and now I am seeing a 24 year old. Is this totally crazy? It's just for fun to get my mind off the break up, and he takes me out and I enjoy our dates! Should i stop seeing him? he says that he feels weird about dating someone so young but it would be even weirder if he didn't think that, so that's a good point i think... but I feel like he just wants sex, I'm not entirely sure though, he takes me out on really nice dates and stuff.... :o help. Is this relationship normal and acceptable or is it inappropriate?

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Based on 27 votes (13 yes)
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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    You said rebounding........ Does that mean booty call!!? Your still a stupid little girl and your baby rapist boyfriend has many many problems and you too will have many problems when your his age. So ur 17 now would you consider going out with a boy who's 10years old!!? I'm sure your not fucking the dude. I'm sure you've never sucked his doodle or he's nnnnnneeevver seen your boobies right!!? I'm ssssuree. Maybe you could ask mommy or your daddy for some advise about your sugar daddy.

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  • capitalist-piggy
    11 years ago

    Hold on... Did I miss something? Is 17 legal now? When did that change?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I actually have no idea, but I think if youare over 16 you can consent?? Im not sure

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  • blue_burr
    11 years ago

    You should leave him before it gets out of hand and one of you become obsessed or something. Leave before you turn 18 for sure then everything legal and he'll push even more. For sex and what not. he'll be like your 18 your parents and people can't tell you what to do your adult now. An you'll get scared and feel trapped. You seem scared already try to not see him anymore tell him you need to focus on school and see how he acts not seeing you as much.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I am not going to have sex with him if I dont want to, haha I'm a pretty self assured person so I dont think I will feel trapped or anything. If he starts to pressure me like that I will stop seeing him.
      However, I do feel he is starting to get a bit more attached and wants to hang out more and I definitely do not want to be his girlfriend. He told me he has never had a committed relationship before, so I really am not sure what he wants... I would be fine just dating him openly, but nothing more. Any tips?

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Age difference is of little importance here, but be safe and take your time to know him first

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  • dontgiveup:)
    11 years ago

    If you feel like he just wants sex.. Trust that feeling! But who knows, older men are much more mature and know how to treat a woman better. If he tries to make you do anything you don't want too, leave immediately!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      He suggested something that I didn't want to do and I said no and he was completely fine with it. Is that still bad?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    If you feel he is making you do things that you don't want to you should not be with him.

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