Is it normal that i am pushing her away?

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Me and my bestfriend who is also my ex-girlfriend have gotten very close as just friends in the past few months. I have had a bit of a dry spell so I asked her if she wanted to be friends with benefits. She agreed and we started to mess around. This lasted about a month but during this month, we started to hang out more 1 on 1 and even start hold hands when I'm driving, cuddle a lot and I would take her out for dinner. We did what couples did. After a day at my house, where we kissed and cuddled, we went to a party and she got hit on every guy right in front of me and she just ignored me as pretended I wasn't at the party. I was very upset and went home. That night I called her and told her how jealous I felt and now, she's going on dates with some guy. I told her that I don't think we can just be friends. So i told her that I don't want to see her anymore until she's done with this guy. IIN?

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  • YoBanana
    13 years ago

    Well technically because you guys are only "friends with benefits" she is allowed to date, flirt, and kiss other guys. You are also free to date, flirt, and kiss other girls because neither of you are in a committed relationship. However, I think you should review your feelings for her because it appears that you want to be in an actual real relationship with her. She is probably not aware that you feel this way. Pushing her away will only confuse her because she expects that you only want to be "friends with benefits". Thus you must talk to her to see if she feels the same way you do. That way you can have a relationship with her. However, if she doe not wish to be committed to you but you do I suggest you two do not continue being friends with benefits. It could ruin your friendship.

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  • michelle2451
    8 years ago

    Just stop talking to each other for a bit. It seems like Its not that easy but it is I promise. Date other girls
    You clearly aren't over her and she's going to date who she wants
    Or maybe she was trying to get you jealous which is worse.
    Do you really want to date a person who would sacrifice hurting your feelings just to show herself she has that power over her. Cut off ties and ignore her
    At least for a month

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    No it's not normal you are the one who said that you wanted to be friends with benefits....

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  • xxxMissFitxxx
    13 years ago

    These things end up badly 90% of the time.

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  • pinksmarty
    13 years ago

    That's cute. U obliviously have feelings for this girl
    But if she's moving on, so should u :)

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