Is it normal that i am only attracted to older guys?

I'm a 18 year old girl. The only guys I find attractive are ones that are older and younger than me.

It's not mega old guys, only up to about 7 years older & 2 years younger.

This guy I really like atm is 23, and he already has a girlfriend. Except he's already told me that he wishes that we could be together.

I am so confusedddd

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  • Gelmurag

    Copied from another post of mine.

    But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.

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  • NotTheSheeple

    At your age, normal for older guys but not so normal for younger guys when you are already attracted to older ones. Sometimes younger girls find themselves with guys 10 or more years older and find out they have a lot more to offer sexually. Some even like the older guys for relationships. It's normal.

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  • drumandpickchick

    Same. That's why I never dated in high school. I always felt more emotionally mature and hated watching girls have immature problems with guys. I told myself I would never date a guy less than 3 years older than me. I just liked the thought of not having to deal with fabricated drama and liked the thought of being with a man who had priorities in order. When I barely turned 20 I married a 25 year old. We've been married 6 years. No drama, no fighting, no problems sure has been nice. We both think it has to do with the age difference...and compatibility.

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  • sofiasexy7

    I am 18 nd I am dating a 24 man I think its normal

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  • Maykittens

    It's normal to like older guys...but INN to like guys that have girlfriends. That's a real bitch thing to do. (:

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  • EAT_IT

    They're usually pretty good in the kitchen given enough time so understand as food is very important.

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    yes baby, u r FINE, Iam like 15, nd my girlfriend is like a month younger to me, I had group sex with her, my cousin(she is also a hot chick) nd she is 21, 6 yrs elder to me nd other 7(18-19 yr old) hot chicks...It was like shit fun!

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  • ygrowup

    Nothing to be confused about, many girls are attracted to older guys. The heart knows no age, so just listen to your heart! Good luck with your choices!

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  • cum4u

    Its ok to have the hots 4 older guys.
    Im 51 and i get a hard on every time o get around a beautiful young woman!

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