Is it normal that i am obsessed with the girl i got cheated on with?

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In 2009 my boyfriend cheated on me with a certain girl that was dating my guy friend. We worked through our problem and got back together.I started stalking her fb and trying to find out everything about her. In April of 2010 we broke it off and two months later I started dating my guy friend...the one that was dating that certain girl because they had finally broken up that year she cheated on him. Still to this day I check her Facebook and try to find out everything i can about her. Especially if my current boyfriend aka her ex keeps in contact with her. Is it normal that I am obsessing over the girl I got cheated on with and my current boyfriends ex?

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    It sounds to me like you are still coming to terms with being cheated on, still maybe don't understand why it happened, and are hoping that finding out all you can about this girl will give you some answers.

    Being cheated on while in a committed relationship is a horrible, horrible feeling. You feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you. It takes away many things you took for granted and leaves you bewildered, shocked, and in pain.

    You might never get the answers you want. But don't dwell on the "What did I do wrong?" question. And try to stop checking up on this girl. You're only keeping your wounds open. You need to let this be consigned to the past now, and move on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    talk to your ex and her to get the answers you're looking for. Maybe that will help the stalking part.

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  • seali001
    12 years ago

    I feel like you are trying to see

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