Is it normal that i am obsessed with my male best friend?

Last year I started 'falling out' with a friend of mine because I messedd up in our friendship. I was so sad that I was losing one of my closest friends. I cried..A LOT. Every night. But after time, and many conversations trying to fix things, we became closer and closer to a point where we called each other best friends. Still, after time passed, we got even closer, and we decided to call ourselves brothers. We never cease to profess our love for eachother ('Love you" , "Love you more" ) . I get so upset when he is spending time with anyone but me. Im jealous of any other person he talks to especially his male friends because I feel like they're trying to take my place. We would always be next to eachother. meaning skin to skin. Never afraid to hug each other either. We talk about sex and out penis sizes though both of us are straight. He's the last person i think about at night and the first person I think about when I wake up...And all the hours in between. Am I obsessed? or are we just that close?

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48% Normal
Based on 50 votes (24 yes)
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Comments ( 8 )
  • Energy

    Y'all don't sound very straight to me.

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  • peterr

    You need to suck each other off. It is that simple.

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  • tripw7

    I voted this as Normal. I understand completely what you are experiencing. You probably know that you like him more than just a passing friend. You want to please him in many ways. This will eventually lead to pleasing him sexually. (Which is very normal) The people that we love, we want to hug and hang with and be involved in every aspect of their life. The question then becomes, what level of involvement does he want with a male friend. He may want you in many ways to be his best, closest maybe even sexual friend. You may have to give him a little space and let him come to that conclusion himself. You are very Normal in my estimation. Please him in any way that is acceptable to him at the moment. Don't worry about others that may have his attention for the moment. You know you are a stronger person and you want him.

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  • Video/song for your situation:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJVt8kUAm9Q

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  • Legion

    its possible you may want him for more than just a friend. sometimes one can have feelings for someone of the same sex even if you consider yourself straight otherwise .

    you probably found "that one exception ". it happens. just see where it leads. you will never know who you'll end up falling for, or what you'll discover about yourself as time goes along.

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  • linchpin

    It's a strange experience this life, huh?

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  • lolol555

    What Energy said but I used to have a friend like that. Haven't seen him in ages, though, wonder what he's up to now...

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  • YoungerSis

    Homo relationship?

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