Is it normal that i am obsessed with my boyfriend?

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I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half. He is my first real relationship, and I lost my virginity to him. He is pretty much the perfect boyfriend.He tells me how much he loves me and would do anything for me. I just don't understand why I am so obsessive over him. I always want to hangout with him. I miss him even when I just leave his house. He is always on my mind. When he wants to take me home I get so sad. I become so emotional and cry. I think to myself if he loved me as much as i love him, he would always want to be with me. I know this is wrong because he loves me so much. I want this to go away, i dont want to be sad when Im not with him. What do I do to stop this?

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Based on 51 votes (34 yes)
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  • chadams
    12 years ago

    I think it is normal when you are young. It was for me. Try to find some interest that are just for yourself. It will give you something to talk about when you are together.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Be very careful you don't ruin this relationship by being clingy. Things that are difficult to see from within the relationship (when blinded by love) are often quite visible to people outside it. Do you have friends (ideally of both genders) that you can talk to about this?

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    • flutterhigh
      12 years ago

      Yes, I also suggest consulting hermaphrodites.

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      • dappled
        12 years ago

        lol

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  • LNS?
    12 years ago

    I was like that and my boyfriend broke up ww
    With me because i was to clingy i never wanted
    To feel like that i just knew i loved him more than
    He ever loved me and i still am not over him to
    I suggest you let your emotions simmer

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  • Katherina
    12 years ago

    I've been in that situation. I still get clingy every time I get into a new relationship. You just need a distraction. Try and hang out with your friends more or do something, anything that would make you happy and let you forget about your emotions for a while (however do not cheat on him).

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  • girl1195
    12 years ago

    Thanks for the advice. I just have to learn how to ignore my emotions

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  • iceboy27
    12 years ago

    tell him about your feelings.you have to think p0sitive.why not try getting married?

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Dont worry pretty soon youll learn to hate him then you can be in a shitty relationship just like everyone else.

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    • joybird
      12 years ago

      haha. Made me laugh anyway :o)

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