Is it normal that i am obsessed with my best friend's boyfriend?

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I used to fantasize about my best friend's boyfriend before they started dating, but I never told her about my interest in him and he doesn't know either. They have been together for many years now, and we all recently had a threesome together. They seem to love eachother very much, and I don't want to break them up. I have been obsessing over the threesome and the guy in particular since we had sex. I would like to have sex with him again, or maybe figure out a way to ignore my feelings. I don't know how to approach them about this now because my best friend is a very jealous person and wouldn't handle it well. Is it normal to want an open relationship with your best friend's boyfriend?

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Based on 161 votes (84 yes)
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  • PorkyExposed
    12 years ago

    Honestly if she is a jealous type then why is she letting her boyfriend have threesomes? And also i think he wants to be w.her (hence the reason he wifey'd her up and not you.) try finding someone else.. Your friends BF's are OFF LIMITS!

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    Have a Polyamorous relationship :D

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  • Oooby
    12 years ago

    XD you had a threesome? Seriously though, if you know that they are happy, try to find someone else.

    The threesome was a bad idea, as it made you want him more. dont lose a friend over a guy.

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  • eggsandbacon
    12 years ago

    now uu kno tht aint normal..thts some fukkd up shht...ne wyy if uu really wanna do him try hintin for another threesome she cnt be tht damn jealous if she let uu hit it once chances are shell let uu do it again....but other thn tht dont mess up their relationship uu had a chance to speak uup long before thy got together uu didnt..uu missd you chnce..

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  • luvinsumdix
    12 years ago

    You can't control who you love, but you never let your friend know about your feelings, so it's not her fault at all. If you can see that they're really in love especially because they've been together so long, then you should've back the fuck off the second you saw how happy they were. If you don't back off soon, you'll lose your best friend, and he will NOT choose you over her, and it'll suck big time.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    I know it's too late to go back, but this is why you shouldn't have threesomes with friends or people you are close to. it can destroy friendships, and many times it does. I'm not sure which is the best option. normally I'd say be honest with your friend and tell her how you really feel about her guy.

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  • MarieWantsIt
    12 years ago

    If the three of you enjoyed the threesome, why not try to bring about the same circumstances? However, my guess is that he would cheat on her if you seduced him alone. Before I was attached, my friend and I used to dare each other to seduce certain guys. They rarely say 'no.'

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    yes, its completely normal. You should tell her and her boyfriend your feeling. If she was really that jealous of a person, she wouldnt have let you fuck her boyfriend.

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