Is it normal that i am not married

I want marriage and my husband dont.This is really bothering me because he is 31 and i am 28.I have kids with him so thats kind of why i want this marriage.I also have another child by an a**hole who always stays locked up.He is really a piece of sh*t.So i am wondering if i am the one for him.I sat around all last summer and watched everybody get married except for me.I dont know is this normal!Holla

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60% Normal
Based on 52 votes (31 yes)
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  • DefJay

    I actually think this is normal. Marriage is useless in my opinion. Why do you need a piece of paper stating that you love someone and that you want to spend your whole life with him. More than 60%% of everybody that does get married end up divorcing so dont worry about it.

    @wlman1234: In this time and this society, there are very many people who arent married and have children. I'll guarantee that your kids will not be outcasts because of this.

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  • ucipher8

    I wanna believe as marriage as just a notarized piece of paper. If your boyfriend has the guts to stay with you, without a license, thats really great, no pressure for either of you. Plus you have kids, and a man locked up? Maybe you should be the one putting a ring on it?

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    • ucipher8

      Plus, getting divorced nowadays cost more than the wedding party...

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  • Gidget

    I like how u referred to him as your husband pay attention when he introduces u next time to someone what does he say in that lies your answer

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  • wlman1234

    you sould get married
    thats not only for u as the better thing
    and also for ur children
    they dont wanna sth different from otehrs...

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