Is it normal that i am not a very sexual person?

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It seems that everything in the media, from television to movies to radio to magazines, is centered around sex. My question is, is it normal to not feel motivated by sex, and even to feel a bit uncomfortable or awkward with the constant bombardment of sexual images?
Let me give you a little background. I'm a a college girl, so obviously I am surrounded by sex and the pressures of sex at all times. Please keep in mind that I am incredibly social, have many friends, and have had enjoyable sexual experiences. However, I do not feel that I am motivated by sex. The most important relationship for me is not (and I can't really see it becoming) a sexual relationship but rather my friendship with my best friend (no we are not lesbians at all).
Many of my friends are motivated by sex and I do not judge them in any way but I feel a but left out of society at times that this is not so important to me. When I hear people is us their sec in detail or when people ask my overly sexual questions about my own experiences I feel embarrassed and a bit uncomfortable.
It feels like sooety expects me to be excessively sexual and to be focused on finding a man to engage in a long term sexual relationship with. This simply isn't the biggest concern in my life. So basically I am just wondering if this is normal?

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    So normal. I say that because really, there are plenty of people who don't really think about sex too often. And even get a little annoyed by how often they see sexual tactics deployed in advertisements. Yeah seriously just go on and live your life. Nobody is encouraging you to do anything you don't want to, but I know that it can often feel that way when it comes to sex.

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