Is it normal that i am jealous/pissed off??

So I have a friend that all the girls like. he doesn't work out and isn't very good looking in fact to be honest I think I have a nicer body and am more handsome yet all the girls like him. he is my friend but still I think he is quite ugly and dumb. he is good company sometimes but at other times he is quite cruel even though to even the ugly girls he flirts. this really pisses me off and I am really jealous of him. I want them to like me. just to add as a afterthought he has a nicer body than me in some places but is fat so I would say I have the better body. he always flirts with everyone and if someone responds and asks him out he teases them and tells everyone.even when people don't flirt back he says they have cause he can't accept he is not cool and fit in fact to be blunt I am not convinced that all girls like him I think he flirts occasionally a bird responds and the rest of the time he bullshits his way through

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Comments ( 11 )
  • SangoNyappy

    Girls don't like jealous assholes.

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  • ProseAthlete

    It isn't about your body. It's about your attitude, personality, face and a huge bunch of other factors. When you say he "flirts," what exactly does he do? Does he joke with women and spend more time listening to them than worrying about whether he's "quite ugly and dumb" as you called him?

    Unless he's got a face like a pizza and a body like a bag of pillows, the guy who is confident and fun to be around will get a lot more female attention than someone who's too concerned about how he comes across to relax and enjoy others' company. Men who are constantly worrying about their bodies are also an extreme turn-off. Who wants to go out with someone who has as many body issues as a pubescent girl?

    Also, you're kind of a lousy friend for speaking so ill of this guy. I get that you're jealous, but don't hate; watch what he does and follow suit. He's clearly doing something right if he's a pudge-ball and still gets the ladies. :)

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      This.

      It's not just about body. Attitude is a huge factor and girls aren't exactly going to flock to an insecure dude.

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  • disfunkshinal

    Sounds like he's confident and light-hearted. Why don't you try the same attitude?

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  • Paradiddle

    I think it is normal to feel this way so technically you aren't wrong for feeling like that. He is getting all the attention from the ladies and you'd like that yourself. I speak from experience though, JUST being a nice guy isn't going to cut it. There is going to have to be something about you and the way you act or present yourself to attract people and if you want those ladies, you're going to have to come out of the nice guy shell and do something that causes that. This doesn't mean that you have to change and be a rude guy but at least try flirting in your own way and see if that works for you. Some girls complain that they would like a nice guy as a boyfriend but they simply put them in the friend zone without a chance. Then again, the nice guy is at fault too for not trying hard enough.

    On the flip side, is being a chick magnet really all that? How many of those girls that your friend attracts are really worth the effort in the long run? Your friend doesn't sound like a keeper either.

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  • Energy

    He's the average douche bag. And some chicks dig that. He thinks he's all that and girls actually like that.

    Don't be a douche bag but try and gain some confidence. If he makes you that jealous I wouldn't be friends with him. You need space to become confident and carefree. With him around...you'll always be jealous and mad.

    While young girls dig douche bags in the long run....nobody wants them. They're tools.

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  • Ocean239

    Same happens here. Except instead of a dumb ugly friend, I have a slightly dumb, person who looks like me bestie. It's funny cuz we'd be walkin and someone would ask us if we were twins. What fuqing pisses me off is the fact is that she has all the friends that are guys, and all my friends are girls, except for the ones she introduced to me. I think I like one of her friends, tho, and ones a bitch, and other thinks I hate him, and there is one I'm totally besties with.

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  • Nokiot9

    Have u seen his dick? Lol maybe its something like that...

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  • justagal

    as much as this post makes u seem like a asshole at least u r not faking being Mr nice guy like I get the impression u usually do. people shouldn't hate on here this man has been honest and u have criticised him for it

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  • justagal

    u sound like u feel insecure about ur body and possibly have pent up anger at this friend, I wouldn't bad mouth a friend like this unless they had really pissed me off. from what u have said this guy is a bit of a bully so u r probably not happy around him anyway and it must be annoying when he gets all the girls. if he makes u feel that way stop hanging around with him And get some.nicer friends when u feel more comfortable with who u r around girls will sense that and like u better

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  • Justsomejerk

    It's not a completion bro, can't you just be happy for your friend?

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