Is it normal that i am in love with my best friend?

So it might be a dumbo question. I do love him. I am 18 and we've been very very close . I met him in preschool and I started crushing on him since Year 6 . We go to college, hang out and I am even more crazily in love with him. But it's seems so weird coz it feels like he dosent have the slightest fuzzy warm feeling about me. He recently told me he had been crushing on this lass called Iris who's from Ireland. But they hardly talk anyway. I wish I could stop having a silly crush on a person who dont even like me! Plz no rude comments..seriously I think about him every single day. I wish he felt the same about me :(

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  • jacobkyle

    I know what you mean. There was this one girl I really liked but she didn't like me. When I asked her out she said no but you will get over it. The best thing to do is not be a bitch and spoil his relationship with Iris because you will be seen as the bad one. Have a chat with him because you never know he might have feelings for you too but is too shy for him to show his feelings because of this other girl he has his eye on.

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    • ZinZin

      Ok thx

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      • jacobkyle

        No problem. I'm just here to help. :)

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  • TheBirdofEndlessNoiseandChaos

    Totally normal. Sucks that he doesnt feel the same, but its ok to have a crush.

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    • ZinZin

      Yea thx

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      • TheBirdofEndlessNoiseandChaos

        Sure thing

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  • U_CANT_RECOGNIZE_ME

    Same way with my best friend,shes bi and she likes some other guy but also a girl
    i wanna ask her lut but I dont wann a make things weird because I feel like as long as im part of her life thats all that matters :-/

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  • hit him with some hypothetical questions see where it goes. Maybe he's not interested because he doesn't know you are.

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