Is it normal that i am in love with a guy 20 years older than me?

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Is it normal that I have a massive crush on a man 20 years older than me?
He doesn't like me back...

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Based on 71 votes (50 yes)
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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Normal to have a crush on anybody. You left out some details though, you didn't say how old you are or how old he is. Is he married, or does he have any children? If so you better leave him alone..interfering with that is never a good thing.

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    • Temperancebooth
      12 years ago

      No, he isn't, but yesterday I found out he's had a girlfriend for like 3 years....

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  • Shoutmon
    12 years ago

    Some people ar just attracted to people older then them!

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    I fell in love with a man 16 years older than me...the funny thing is, he liked me too, and I never knew. Now that I am 18, we are engaged. See? There is always hope.

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    There's really no manual , whoever floats your boat. It's just him not his age , happens all the time but then - that number comes up.

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  • ButterflyKiss
    12 years ago

    Don't worry, I was 14 and I was in love with a 31 year old. He didn't love me back, which hurt, but I know I'm attracted to older men as well.

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    • Temperancebooth
      12 years ago

      yeah im 14 too, but i really don't know how old he is. That's just approximate. :(

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  • Owlii
    12 years ago

    In my opinion, yes its normal, you cant really stop your attraction for them, and in my case if you try stoppin it you just start likeing them even more. Ive got no idea how old this guy in my judo class is buut.. Im pretty sure hes at least 10 years older than me, but i cant help it, hes beautiful.. I have a crush on him : /

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