Is it normal that i am in love with "a beast"?

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I am a girl that many people consider pretty. Since I am little, the people arround me have told me that I am a very good looking person. Because of that, I usually never had trouble finding a boyfriend, until today. I have fell in love with a boy that no girl considers handsome, and any of my friends like him. He may not be beautiful, but I love his personality and the person I am whenever I am with him. He is a gentleman and I just love to be around him.

One night, I couldnt control myself and I had sex with him. It was awesome, and the next day I did not feel like running away. We had breakfast together, we talk, and I felt happy. I had to hide this from my friends because they would just lecture me. And besides that, I dont think that the guy will ever dare to make a move on me because he doesnt think I would ever want anything serious with him, while the only thing I want to say is that I love him.

What can I do?

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  • Jennalee
    14 years ago

    Awww that is such a cute story.I think you should tottaly go for it,you clearly have strong feelings for him.

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  • Iku_Nagae
    14 years ago

    Stay with him, who cares what your friends say. Love is love and there is not a darn thing they can do about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Your friends sound pretty shallow and judgmental. Stop looking at him through their eyes. You see the whole package, his looks, behaviour and gentleness. And you like it. Don't short change yourself because of silly friends.

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  • redcarp
    14 years ago

    friends are important but if they are really friends, they will understand your love ... and about the guy, what about saying to him what you feel?

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  • dafattyfat
    13 years ago

    So, what you're saying is.. you're better than him? you and all your friends are, issir?
    Awh, he's got a great personality, and he's lovely, but that's doesn't matter because my friends are pretty and they're all i need.

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  • Shepski
    13 years ago

    Thou shall not look into teh face but into the soul

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Ur story sounds like beauty n the beast who cares if ur 'beast' isn't a prince charming??? As long as ur happy with him thn thts all tht matters don't worry bout what ur friends think

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  • quantumboy
    14 years ago

    just tell him that quantum mechanics is the cause behind the causalitarian natre of God's love and it is because of Quantum mechanics that you are here, and listen to him cursing you and tell you that you are a nerd, break int a fight ad break up so that you can hook with a good guy

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  • Jaystr
    5 years ago

    If you really love him then whats on the outside shouldn't matter

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Swallow a mouthful of his jizz.

    Then and only then can you love a man.

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  • Sandthe
    12 years ago

    love is innocent love is pure it can happned to anyone

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  • megipop626
    13 years ago

    Tell him!

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  • Mastersash
    13 years ago

    O.o

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  • red_gal_85
    13 years ago

    if u love him he loves u and treats you well then who cares what they think its really immature to judge someone soley on their appearance and if they judge you for dating him then get new friends. Also if u already had sex with him then he kinda already made a move

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    Do IT

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Real friends don't try to change your feelings. I say go for it!

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  • tampabayallstar
    14 years ago

    I suggest you rent the old Twilight Zone eps from the late 50s early 60s. There is an episode called EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. It is a wonderful episode and very poignant.You might even be able to see the episode for free on IMDB or HULU.

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  • ShadowRunner
    14 years ago

    I'm very pretty to and I've also falling in love with the boy I knew since Kindergartner,I havn't talk to him in three years cause he was always the one to be picked on, I didn't want that life and I went with another group who feeled my head with things. But I gave him my email so we could talk in private. hes not that bad, and hes even got a deep voice unlike other guys. So I so understand.

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Sounds to me like you are into him just because you are having troubles finding another boyfriend.
    And you are also a liar and a hypocrite.
    You had sex with him even if you expected to feel like running away.That means you do that a lot.
    And probably everyone knows you do.
    So,he is for you,just the last stand.
    Last resource.Because every other guy,just plain wants to keep using you as a little bitch.
    But he,no,he doesn't wanna do that,because he can't get any other girl.So you kind of catch two fishes with a single hook.And in the near future you have many chances&choices.
    While he only got you.And he will get mad about you and suffer as soon as you decide dating "the beast" isn't convenient anymore.Or the sex just becomes,let's say "less than great".
    And,you use him as a comparison tool.You love the person you are compared to him.Or,you like the way you change whenever you are around him.And that WILL eventually change.Because you like being different persons,playing an act to reach your goals.Whatever those goals and purposes you never state are.
    You don't want anything serious with anybody deary.You just wanna satisfy your own selfish needs.That being said:You don't have any idea what love is.If there is such a thing.
    Which I seriously doubt.You are so far from love you are not even funny.

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    • liloprado
      13 years ago

      Thank you for your feedback.

      haha even when he and I did not work out, we are still very good friends. And yes, you were right, I used to run away after every boy I met, I guess I was scared. My first boyfriend died unexpectedly , and that broke my heart in such a way that I refused to have anything serious with anybody for a while. I also had several mood changes during this time. For example, I would like a guy , then get bored in a week, and on to the next one. I protected myself too much and always found an excuse to avoid the guy I liked so I wouldnot get hurt.

      Finally I met a guy over a year ago who made me change my whole perspective in life. He was everythign I ever wanted, and did not let me run away. Yes, I was soooo far away from love it was not even funny. I realized that when I look back in time. you were right.

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