Is it normal that i am going crazy because i cant find anyone to like?

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I always have to have a crush. That's just my personality. But right now, I feel stuck. I just don't like anyone in my grade (I'm in eighth) and where am I going to go to meet someone? Please don't think of me as "just a kid" because I'm very mature for my age. Nothing exciting is going on in my life. Just school work and seeing my friends at lunch and dance class. I hate how life is all about work every second. I just want to live life!! Please help me :( I'm stuck and falling deeper and deeper into a bottomless pit of cold snow. No one really knows me. I just got over bullimia by myself... no one knew or was there to help me. Everyone tells me I'm pretty and guys think so too just not the ones in my grade. I have dark brown hair, slightly tannish skin and piercing blue eyes (I don't mean that in a braggy way just describing) ok I don't know where I'm going with this.... just... what's going on? Please help... IIN? And Ps I'm NOT attention seeking just getting things off my chest.... I really just don't know where I stand and where to find my happiness. I have lots of really nice friends but I just... cant find the right direction for me.

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  • KatieLiz
    11 years ago

    Chill out, you're only young once, stop stressing about the opposite sex. Trust me, you'll have enough of that later in life.

    Learn a martial art, or to play an instrument or something awesome, and let the rest fall into place later.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    It's just your teenage whoremones messing with you. You'll get over it eventually.

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  • mondolo
    11 years ago

    Yes I've been there. Don't worry that pit will be filled w/ confidence. Confidence u get from setting reasonable goals, reaching them, setting another & another...etc. your young and and I'm sure ur one of the pretty ones.
    Your comment Tells me; this girl has an old soul and that makes u 20 steps ahead of your mates. Pease outs

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    This doesn't seem to be all about you having a crush. Having a crush doesn't make you mature, btw. I totally understand what you're going through and my mantra is "patience and planning".
    If you plan for your life, and if you are patient, then things can go well for you. Good luck!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    just have a jizzing good time watching porn

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    what do you mean i have gone to witch?

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      8th grade? So you are like 14? You know the site rules are 18 and up young one. Also at that age you do not have much of a choice. They have raves or you can become a DJ.

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  • --ash--
    11 years ago

    That's because you have matured much more than you think & have gone to Witch!!! Stay away!!! Most women usually get it around their late 30's but you got it so young.

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  • MeHTa
    11 years ago

    Absolutely normal to want to create drama in your life at this age, really. I think that you are just being bored (which by the way, in your age i was exactly the same way). Bulimia, wanting to like someone, wanting for someone to like you... It is attention seeking behavior. Don't get me wrong, i am not in any way criticizing you. Blame the hormones. My remedy for you is to read some romantic books like Pride and Prejudice (and not such crap like twilight). This will take your mind off of JH crushes and make you relive these romantic moments in your imagination. Read good adventure books as well. Try to be outside with friends, imagine, talk about what you want to do in a future, places to visit, things to see... Talk to your parents about this anxiety. Do sports in school! Be a kid and enjoy this time. All this relationship crap will come in time, don't rush it...

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Try perfume on the wrist, even the no no square. I'm talking of course about your pubic area. spritz will make you smell wonderful. Fabulous!!

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  • head.gamemaker.crane
    11 years ago

    Smoke weed get drunk make friends

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