Is it normal that i am getting refused by women ?

61% Normal
17 Comments

I am seeking a psychological analysis , for to root out the effect , one ought to eliminate the cause . Insight into matters prove to be worthy for the entire life.
I would be writing in British english . I am an analytic person , with a natural philosophic mind . So , I go into things and matters . I am 26 . I don't remember to be rude , to show misdemeanour to anybody in my life ever (not even to younger people) . I am quiet impersonal and formal to strangers . I am fair skinned and of slim stature , sharp nose - the features which are defined as ideally attractive in my surrounding and culture . I prefer to write letters (often romantic) to propose the ladies , as I find it a civil and courteous way to approach beautiful and dignified women . But, I am not getting positive response , and a bit confused . Am I too serious or what should I do ... Please , help me out

Voting Results
61% Normal
Based on 18 votes (11 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 17 )
  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    *Scratches head and leaves the room*

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
      -
    • MilleBornes
      11 years ago

      Knew he'd make all the women leave....

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    if in doubt continue smiling and back slowly out of the room.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Fuck if i know.

    But you are boring as shite maybe justmaybe that is a contributing factor.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Correct your spelling and commit no nuisance in speaking

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    It is probably because of your grammatical skills.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      English is obviously not their first language.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      2
      2
  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    I love them who are called 'animals'...especially kittens...I have heard, girls do 'cat-fight'...ha..ha...don't mind, just joking...please, please, please don't misunderstand me, I am not a dunce...my approach is just different

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Thanks for your comments . Continue posting your comments...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Unfortunately there is no hope for you in your current endeavours, to attract dignified and beautiful women.

    You may find a female who is similar and willing to mate with you else where.

    Fate fortunes the brave.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You sound like you have the personality of a wet dish cloth.

    And a pointy nose isn't considered attractive lol.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    I am bold enough to propose a girl of my choice , even if her existing boyfriend (if there is any) rants at me. I think I am attractive enough to at least draw the attention of a girl. But, I haven't done that before and I always prefer to avoid unparliamentary words (over-smartness !) or colloquial talkativeness unwarrantedly infringing personal space of a person, and use lexicographic words that has some artistic and literary value. That is my naturally stylized personality and attitude which I certainly won't change to prentend to be something else (as I even prefer going through a manual before meditation and even using an electronic appliance ! (by 'meditation' I include any type of reflection and contemplation , even a beautiful uncensored naturally romantic dream)). Therefore I fear , that my too straightforward uprightness (a direct hit) - might seem as a lewd proposition to a girl , who doesn't understand me and my mentality, and might backfire as well...I know I sound much more of a psychology professor and my personal self-analysis like a research paper !...I think the intelligent readers can now know very well about my thoughtfulness and this letter (the question asked) is not just about proposing a girl, but also about a quest of a knowledge-lover . That's why the post is in the 'Thoughts' section.
    Am I too serious (in which I am powerless) , to get a girl !! What do you think ?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • iintolovethissite
      11 years ago

      Your doing it wrong mate. SWAG YOLO PIMP, be cool bro.

      Woman like to talk about themselves * note you don't have to be honest with them n fact lying can be even better or if yo don't want to lie tell half truths ( twist the story in your favour)

      Be fun smile play the game it's actually really easy.

      And no letters mate seriously try asking face to face to go out for a drink give her a couple of wines this way she will be more relaxed you will be relaxed ( and damn you need it )

      RULE 1: Alcohol is your friend

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • bitchtookmypillow
    11 years ago

    *cough* forever alone *cough* :D jk

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • MilleBornes
      11 years ago

      jk, but not really lol

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Well... a letter is how my boyfriend got me, but I was 14 then. Maybe women are seeing you as a bit immature or too timid because of this. They might even find it a bit creepy.

    How exactly do the women respond to your approach? And how do your male friends usually approach women?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    I think if any one of us truly knew what the opposite sex (or simply sex of one's preference) was looking for, they would be world famous and extremely rich,and we'd see advertisements for their self help program everywhere.

    I never pursue things, and that's worked out great for me. Rather than going after people or actively seeking a partner, I just focus on myself, do things I enjoy and tend to meet more people I can get along with or be close to that way.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0