Is it normal that i am gay and i hate anal sex?

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I feel so alone.. I have hooked up with alot of guys, and all of them ask if they can stick their penis inside my ass.. If I say no, then I never hear from them again. If I say yes, then they start to fuck me and it becomes so excrutiatingly painful that I tell them they have to stop... Then I never hear from those ones again either. Maybe this is why i've never had a boyfriend.. I have tried to force myself to like anal, I cant find any pleasure out of it. Ive dont it the right way every time (go slowly, use lube, etc), and it still doesnt work. I dont get how the overwhelming majority of gay men like it. Maybe i'm just a freak of nature, or maybe I'm one of the only gay guys who prefers frotting (non-penetrative sex). And the thought of topping makes me sick, I really cant get turned on by imagining me putting my dick into a guys butt. So is this SOMEWHAT normal, or am I doomed to be rejected for not giving gay guys what they want and being single for a very long time?

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    According to a reliable Wikipedia source, 20% of gay guys don't do anal. You are not alone.

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  • Hbkjust
    12 years ago

    I just think you aren't gay!

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  • trickydick
    12 years ago

    It's a bit odd to say the least. I'm a straight guy but like anal with a girl but I love pussy also.

    Having said that I did have sex with a very beautiful ladyboy in Singapore she/he was amazingly sexy she did everything a female would do and apart from a cock he was a she. BUT I could not let her do me analaly even he/she had a tiny cock.!!!

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    Firstly, dont ever force yourself into it, cause that will cause a lot of pain. Its all about being relaxed. By yourself, start with a finger and some lube, and if that doesnt hurt, then slowly work up. Once you can use a dildo and not hurt, then you should be ok. Remember to allow the spincter muscles to relax

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