Is it normal that i am fat :( !!

i am 58 kilo and I am short Iam only 156cm . i seem like iam not fat but iam not fit :S I hate my body and i have tried to lose weight but i cant =/ i dont think iam attractive or hot i dont think that i have a beautiful face ,, i dont know what to do anymore please help me :)

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  • My wife is 5ft 2 and looks her best at about 125lbs. That's a healthy, curvy, managable weight. Please quit being so self-critical...and ignore the trolls.

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    • merci ♥

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  • anti-hero

    Translation for Americans: 128lbs and 5'1.5" (approximate).

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    • Jeaneathean

      Translation for British. That's just over 9 stone.

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      • anti-hero

        I thought the British were going with kg now?

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        • Jeaneathean

          Most people still do stones and pounds.

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          • anti-hero

            hmmm well damn.

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  • IDiGAFi

    That's not fat. Depending on the person, you could be really hot with that description.

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  • flowergirl87

    Perhaps try and get more toned rather than lose weight.

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    • flowergirl87

      I don't know why this comment was marked down... it was just a suggestion. Perhaps I should have been clearer. Please see my comment further down for explanation.

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    • BloodRedAndTrue

      i'd turn into muscle and at that height she would look sort of bulky. you cant really tone up fat, either gain or lose.

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      • Adriana_white

        Guys i think in real she is not as fat as you think !! how old are you ??!!

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        • flowergirl87

          I don't think she's fat, I was just making a suggestion. 'I am not fat but I am not fit' - was the main thing that made me say it. Often people think they're fat and feel dissatisfied with their bodies when they would feel more positive if they toned up. I don't usually advocate teenagers losing weight either, as they usually do not need to.

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        • I am 15 :(

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          • flowergirl87

            You're still young and your body is still changing, so don't worry! Please don't be too hard on yourself.

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          • BloodRedAndTrue

            im 16, haha. 128 isnt even close to fat, around 150 and up is fat if you ask me at that height. your probably just curvy ~~~~~~~~~~~~

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Do u resemble a blimp

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  • Strat

    it cracks me up the way some women describe themselves to those who have not seen them " im not skinny but i'm not fat,i'm not a Barbie but i'm not ugly...at some point you have to wonder if they even know what they look like.

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  • GinnyWeasley

    Focus on healthy eating and work out or play some sport you enjoy. I suggest quittin soda, it makes a huge different.

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  • codeine

    mirrors are misleading

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  • Elmanta

    I think you're over evaluating this i mean about the part you wrote about your face is so not true because girls become really pretty at that age as they grow more mature . And about your body a girl your height and weight is just curvy which is good . So how are you not attractive or hot with a curvy body and a pretty face just remember that alot of women wish to have one more day as a teenager so you should stop being concerned about how you look and enjoy these years because they will come to an end sooner or later

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  • BloodRedAndTrue

    do 3 sets of 2 min sprints at 9mph. you'll burn 1000+ calories give or take

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    • Really !!! thank you very much :)

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  • kelili

    Mmmm that's a big fat. You should do some sports. You should REALLY do some sports.

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    • Elmanta

      Actually i personally dont think thats fat because it might be curvy because some girls that age are concerned of being too curvy but with your height i dont think that would be too curvy nor fat . Besides its not like your body reached its maximum weight , you will be taller in no time

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      • kelili

        I'm not the OP

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        • Elmanta

          I'm not arguing

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    • hitchman

      Ya shes nasty

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