Is it normal that i am falling for my first love all over again?

I recently began seeing my ex boyfriend regularly again after we broke up 2 years ago. It was an amicable split and we remained friends and on quite good terms.

We began dating the summer before freshman year in high school and dated until halfway through sophomore year. Our relationship was fairly innocent in nature, but we fell in love nonetheless. We were different enough that we brought out the best in one another. I brought him out of his shell and he calmed me down.

About 3 months ago we started talking more often (no more than 3 times a month) and we got together a few times to catch up. In the past month we have talked more and we saw one of our favorite local bands together. Things are starting to feel like they did when we were dating (he stops by my house to say "hey" if he is in the area, we sit close, I put my head on his shoulder and he brushes the hair out of my face, we go on picnics) I almost think I have a chance with him again.

Is it normal I am falling for my first love again?

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Based on 49 votes (41 yes)
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  • KeddersPrincess

    Long as I live
    My first love (you and only you)
    Long as I live
    My first love (and I choose you agan)

    - Made popular by Avant and Keke Wyatt

    This happens a lot. They even write songs about it (as seen above). It's normal :)

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    • pappusharma

      Yup its completely normal. First love is something that never goes away from you, even if it is in thought.

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      • michelle2451

        Well yeah, "first love" actually does go away. Many people just cling onto that fantasy its mere attachment and mourning of what could have been but many move on entirely...
        But, yeah to answer the question it is fairly common.

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