Is it normal that i am drawn to mature women?

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My mom died when I was 14, so I never really had a woman to look up to (I am a girl by the way). So now whenever I meet a mature woman who is nice to me (whether it be a teacher, group leader, or something else), I feel drawn to them, and want them to appreciate me and support me. Sometimes I feel like I'm being creepy, but I really just want their approval.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I think its normal. You didn't have a mother figure for the rest of your childhood so now you seek to find approval in the form of "substitutes".

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    Normal. My ex had that attitude and her mom was alive, but shitty. I had that attitude towards men because my father wasn't there. I leaned towards responsible men but she imitated other shitty women.

    It's normal but hopefully you leaned towards respectable women and as a grown woman, yourself, remember it's ok to ask advice, but you should be mature enough now to KNOW what's right and wrong. We men don't like childish women. Fun loving, yes. Childish no

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