Is it normal that i am depressed because of my appearance???

I don't think skin tone is a big issue with girls. At least I know, that I don't care. But like the others here have said, confidence and self-esteem are very important. Try working on them instead of worrying about your looks. And if you're 18, then you definitely shouldn't worry about still being a virgin.

They are right. You need to be confident. Im a girl, and My friends and I couldnt care less about guys skin tone. Its the attitude we care about. Personally, I love guys that think they are hot. Guys that are super confident are just like.. wow!(: And you have blonde hair and blue eyes!?! :D How are girls not all over you?! i LOVE BLONDE HAIR.. wanna know what i love more than blonde hair? BLUE EYESSS<3

Man up! Dont need good looks to get a girl. Even the ugliest guys get girls. Getting chicks is all about banter. Nothing wrong with pale skin and blonde hair mate. I bet your self confidence is stopping you from even trying to get girls, am I right? Man up and get in there! and i bet you will get a girl.

dont tan, you are tall and blond own it! maybe do weights and eat protein to gain a bit of weight thats all

get a tan.

You should probably take some serious lessons in self esteem and self worth before you go out on any damn dates and spread your disease of faux-jadedness around to the working population.

As everyone has said it's all about confidence and self-esteem. If you are not happy with how you look that's definitely normal, most people are self-concious about their image.
If you project out to girls that you are shy and have low self-esteem, that is really what makes you unattractive. Being charismatic, funny and a good listener is what girls really want in a guy. I'm sure you'll find that all the girls who only go out with the hot guys are being stupid because they are going out with airheads.

If you do want to try out tan and the sun doesn't help, you can get some lotions (such as Nivea) which give you a light tan and then fade after a while. I bought some ages ago and even though it said just for your face, I used it everywhere. You're definitely making the right decision by not going to a tanning salon!

Relationships also aren't the best thing in the world and shouldn't be seen as the solution to making you happy. You need to find out how to make yourself happy on your own terms first. I was exactly like you before (shy, blue eyes, very very pale skin and lonely) and only after did I think 'f**k it' did I actually decide to go up and talk to girls. If you don't ask then you'll never know, and you have nothing to lose by asking.

I've met over 60 people and the longest I've been with someone is 1 month so I am completely used to rejection now, being single doesn't bother me anymore and I realise it's a much lower priority than my education, job and my family. If it's gonna happen, it will be when you least expect it.

you're saying you're a shade too pale for handsome?! dude it's not about how pale your skin is but how you wear that skin if you have confidence & not self conscious all the time you're good to go. coz you what confidence is sooo attractive & you're 6'2 & skinny some girls dig that a LOT

If you are quiet that stop being quiet you have friends talk to people put on a cool animal hat and go out there and show em. Oh and why are you so desprate for a Girl Friend? You have not fond the one you love that loves you so be patent and get on with your life. Hope it all works out bro :).