Is it normal that i am depressed about my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We used to live in the same city until I went to college and he joined the military in 2010. We got to see each other once in 2011. When were physically together he'll be the sweet person I remember him to be. He is perfect! Everything that a girl would want in a man, but there's one flaw that's been bugging me for a year: he rarely makes the effort to talk to me. We would talk every 3 or 4 days through text messages, and I always have to ask beforehand if I can call him. I have to send the first text message most of the time. I don't get it, when we were both in the same city we would talk 24/7.
He is "property" of the government now, but I know for a fact that he has some time to have a life. He is possibly cheating on me, but the way I know him would totally disagree with it. He might be losing interest. He might be too busy. He might not need to talk to me as much as I do. I don't know. I have told him numerous times what I feel, that we've been lacking in communication for too long. Unfortunately, the next day nothing changes.
I've been feeling more depressed by the day. Lately those feelings have been turning into hate and anger. I tried to be patient and understanding, yet a year of little communication is just too long!
Is there something wrong with me or him?